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PostPosted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 1:57 am 
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Since my adolescent years I was a habitual masturbator and frankly I quite enjoyed masturbation as an outlet. It allowed me to fantasize about any girl I lusted for and that was the best part of masturbation.

Then in 2016 I decided to reduce the number of times I masturbate because I wanted to experience more wet dreams. In 2017 I gave up masturbation completely. In 2018 I have continued with my abstinence streak and have no plans to masturbate again.

2016 – Total 15 Wet Dreams [I used to masturbate as well in 2016]

2017 – Total 22 Wet Dreams [I completely gave up masturbation]

2018 – Total 9 Wet Dreams + 1 Premature Ejaculation [I have completely given up masturbation]

Now the question is Wet Dreams [WD] versus Premature Ejaculation [PE].

While I have had far more wet dreams and only 1 premature ejaculation so far I would dare to suggest that a premature ejaculation in my view is perhaps more exciting and pleasurable than a wet dream [and I am not talking about the orgasm]. Let me explain why.

A WD is totally involuntarily, so you have no control over your erotic dreams that trigger the WD because you are asleep. You are not in control of your mind and thoughts and neither are you in control of your body [penis] which is why you ejaculate through a wet dream. You cannot induce a WD in a manner of speaking.

A PE is more voluntary in a sense, because you are awake. You can trigger a PE by visual and mental stimulation. So you can choose your fantasy thoughts, you can choose what porn you want to watch in other words you can chose your trigger. So when this results in PE you feel more in control over your mind because you deliberately entertained those thoughts or viewed those porn videos / pictures. You are in control of your mind and thoughts but not in control of your body [penis] which is why you ejaculate prematurely. You can induce a PE in a manner of speaking.

So if I were to choose at this point [and it might be premature because I have had only 1 PE so far :-) ] I might prefer a PE over a WD because a PE gives me that control over my thoughts so like during my masturbation days I can fantasize about the girl I have lusted for and hope it triggers a PE

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 8:39 pm 
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Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 14 Feb 2018
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I think you mean SE or Spontaneous Ejaculation, not PE or Premature Ejaculation, right? PE is cumming before you want to, either through deliberate masturbation or sex. It’s a problem during sex, as it results in the sex act usually stopping before your partner is satisfied.

SE is involuntarily cumming without any deliberate physical stimulation, no MB or sex. It may or may not be associated with an orgasm. It’s most similar, but not the same, as a WD while awake.

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 9:42 pm 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 02 Apr 2017
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It is also possible that he means Hands Free. HF requires mental images to be present before an ejaculation can happen.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2018 12:08 am 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 10 Oct 2014
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I think he means arousing yourself to ejaculation hands free while watching porn. I think a good WD can be better, since you are actually doing something real in the dream, whereas you are an 'observer' watching something with a hands free orgasm.

It's better to be a participant than an observer!


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:07 am 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 19 Dec 2013
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focus wrote:
I think you mean SE or Spontaneous Ejaculation, not PE or Premature Ejaculation, right? PE is cumming before you want to, either through deliberate masturbation or sex. It’s a problem during sex, as it results in the sex act usually stopping before your partner is satisfied.

SE is involuntarily cumming without any deliberate physical stimulation, no MB or sex. It may or may not be associated with an orgasm. It’s most similar, but not the same, as a WD while awake.


Interesting view Focus, the problem is at sometimes I am convinced hearing people's explanations that it was a PE and other times that it was a SE :-)

Yes you are right it was involuntarily cumming without physical stimulation but I was watching porn so there was visual and perhaps mental stimulation. I guess a PE and a SE can be interpreted loosely at times.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:09 am 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 19 Dec 2013
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kitkat wrote:
It is also possible that he means Hands Free. HF requires mental images to be present before an ejaculation can happen.


Another interesting take on this Kitat :-)

I was watching porn videos when I ejaculated so there was visual stimulation but no physical stimulation so in that sense it was hands free


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 23, 2018 4:12 am 
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Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 4
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 19 Dec 2013
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Texanguy wrote:
I think he means arousing yourself to ejaculation hands free while watching porn. I think a good WD can be better, since you are actually doing something real in the dream, whereas you are an 'observer' watching something with a hands free orgasm.

It's better to be a participant than an observer!


You are right Sir, it was an ejaculation without physical stimulation but I was watching porn so there was visual / mental stimulation. One point I would like to make, while watching the video I was perhaps imagining the guy to be me having sex with that girl, so in that sense I was observing and mentally participating as well :-)


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