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Hey, we already know that this is a common problem of some men. I want to know the distribution of the answers related to the users of this board.

I used to but at a time when I hesitated a female friend once commented, "...but you're a man!"

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I had bashful kidneys for a long, long time. I had trouble going if somebody was next to me at the urinals and it really bugged me.

In my case it was tied to a lot of insecurity I had about myself and especially my body image. Once I made progress on that front, I realized one day that I had generally stopped caring whether someone was next to me and I can pretty much just do my business, even at open trough-style urinals.

I'm not sure what would happen if I knew someone was deliberately watching though.

Nope never had a problem with that.

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No problem with that and i am not ashamed to use urinals.

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Yes, i think my bladder is shy..

i can totally relate with capracoon above. used to have a big problem with this, but now I can pee in front of guys with no problem. I think the turnaround for me was accepting myself the way i am.

For me, another part of it was being afraid of someone next to me peeking at and judging me, even to themselves (I'm a grower not a shower). Becoming okay with my size and getting over worrying about a glance here or there was huge.

Yeah, I was a late bloomer, plus even now I'm a grower, not a shower, so once I saw a few others, and realized not everyone is hung like a porn star, I feel a lot more comfortable with myself around others.

It all depends on what's going on in the bathroom, strangely enough. I have no issue at the urinal if either the restroom's empty, or there's someone else using a urinal as well. However, my shy bladder can't handle someone in a stall, washing his hands, or doing anything else besides urinating at a urinal, I get too self-conscious and totally freeze up.

I'm definitively a 'pee shy' i can't more my bladder can't handle someone else in the bathroom
That's not that feel uncomfortable with people seeing but I just can't relax enough to pee

Sorry, but no way in hell will I take a leak with people watching. So glad my work has private restrooms for only 1 person at a time. I learned to avoid public restrooms not only because I don't like using them with other people, but because I find public restrooms to be some of the most disgusting places in the world.

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I have a smaller one and have absolutely no problem even if people saw it It's so normal I don't think anyone would be impressed and/or judge.

I used to when I was younger, but I've largely gotten over it. Even now, though, in a situation like a sporting event or state fair with a very crowded restroom and trough urinals, I still get a little shy and sometimes start to get a bit hard while I'm peeing because of the sheer number of people around.

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I can't urinate in front of others.. I get hard almost immediately. It's embarrassing

I used to be but I have become very open with myself and learn that I have nothing to hide from my friends or anyone for that matter.

Yeah, troughs definitely require effort to stay unfocused and do what needs doing.

Funny thing though, when I was in school I used to have a fantasy about there being a trough...

Out of curiosity, how did that process work for you? What brought you to that state of mind and what did you do or think about when you used to have issues?

I've never encountered one, and I'm pretty sure they're outlawed in building codes here. I've long wanted to try to use one to see if I would find it as nightmarish to use as some guys claim them to be.

Pretty much the only place you'll still see them is in old stadiums that have them grandfathered in, although I was surprised to see one at a relatively small museum once.


It really depends on how busy it is. When there isn't a crowd guys will generally spread out just as if there were urinals and then it's kinda nice because there's absolutely no aiming involved. If it's packed and especially if some guys are drunk there can be some jostling and once I experienced a little splashback from someone else's stream which was kinda nasty.

The material matters, too. I've used nice porcelain troughs which somehow felt proper, and I've used steel troughs that made the whole affair feel decidedly animalistic.

I thought it was worth mentioning, last weekend I was at a small theater to see a play and lo and behold, a trough. The venue is older but the bathroom had been renovated quite recently and it was actually kind of nice.

I have very little shyness in areas that relate to the body and it's functions.

I normally do not have a problem with it. Especially as I go to the toilet only, when my bladder is really full.

The other thing I forgot to add is that if it's a public restroom, I won't use a toilet under any circumstances because the loud splash leaves me feeling like I'm broadcasting emptying my bladder to the entire world. If there's no urinal, I'll either find another restroom that does have one or wait until I get home.