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 Post subject: ABS2018
PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2018 10:15 pm 
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Age: 26
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 5
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 14 Apr 2018
Sex: Male
I'm referring to this abs for my own personal use as #ABS2018redemption

I started ABS 14days ago and started at the same time as a few other users on here. We all had the aim of going 90+ days and supporting each other as accountability partners. Unfortunately on day 13 I slipped up and mbed. To be perfectly honest it felt quite good- I was stood up and lubed my penis and hand and thrusted my penis in and out of it. I edged a few times and enjoyed quick and slow movements. I've used this mb technique in the past and I'm not sensitive enough to do this unless I have about half a week of abs or more. I think it feels better than traditional mb because it replicates the movements and motions of sex more and then build up to orgasm feels good too- I could kind of feel the cum building up from earlier on until I came (this gave a nice sensation and on the penis too) , whereas this isn't as noticeable when I mb real quick by hand movement only.

I think it was my negative state of mind that led towards feeling the temptation to mb. My rationalisation was convincing I will only feel better from mbing. Despite enjoying it and feeling less negative before, I did fail exhausted and numb. It was as if My body felt exhausted from my negative mood subsiding after orgasm and ejaculation, as well as the ejaculation and strong orgasm causing tiredness. I fell asleep mid day for about 3 hours and I'm not sure that would've been so easy if I hadn't mbed.

Later that evening and the morning after, the chaser effect has been present. Even whilst not being aroused, thoughts would wonder to how it'd feel good and give me satisfaction to mb the same way as yesterday. However unlike before I haven't binged or tried to have more than one ejaculation. I've made a conscious decision that this was simply a slip up, and whilst it felt good, I'll have this mb method available in the future, but should aim to see what wet dreams and other experiences can be enjoyed in the next few months and continue abs to 90 or more days . This should hopefully act as a reminder when temptation arises in the future and I'll use the help from this site and NoFap when I get similar urges next time.

As I usually binge after I stop abstaining it'll be interesting to see what (if any) effects this has on the time it takes to get a wet dream and the effects on what it's like to overcome the chaser effect. I want to experience wet dreams so that's the goal and motivation to not consider mbing for the next 90+ Days

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08/05/18 start date
WD#of streak=0
ABS record=116 days in 2016
#ThisTimeABSsept18

I have previous logs that may explain my background.It might make some good bedtime reading!


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 Post subject: Re: ABS2018
PostPosted: Mon Apr 30, 2018 12:56 am 
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Joined: Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:31 am
Posts: 236
Age: 26
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 5
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 14 Apr 2018
Sex: Male
So just now I actually gave into temptation again and used the method again. I was starting to think that I wouldn't finish using it at first but about 3 minutes in I knew I was able to. I felt less sensitive than yesterday. Just goes to show that being able to have 2 mb sessions replicating sex more , rather than heavy hand movements, shows that my abs helped me be in this more natural state. In the past I've certainly not been able to finish this way if I mbed every day.

It's got me thinking that I do have a bit of an issue with mb. Once a day is my usual habit and it's kind of made me densensitized and unresponsive to this better way to mb and wet dreams . Who knows whether this is causing long term issues with erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation or addiction in general. So I've made a choice starting now - to adapt a full on No fap approach(including no porn) with the support of the subreddit http://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap. I think having porn as an option just makes things more difficult, so unlike my abs before when I would allow it, I'm now not allowing myself it because it will just lead to temptation and I'm addicted to porn/ masturbation anyway.

I have felt the chaser effect and maybe this is because I am still sensitive after my abs. However 2 in 14 days isn't the be all and end all for trying to discover what effects mbing once or twice inbetween abstinence does.

Starting now I'm aiming for a full 90 day reboot including no porn and no mb. Let's see what happens!

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08/05/18 start date
WD#of streak=0
ABS record=116 days in 2016
#ThisTimeABSsept18

I have previous logs that may explain my background.It might make some good bedtime reading!


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 Post subject: Re: ABS2018
PostPosted: Sun May 13, 2018 11:43 am 
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Joined: Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:31 am
Posts: 236
Age: 26
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 5
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 14 Apr 2018
Sex: Male
So two weeks ago I ended my ABS of 13 days. It ended abruptly and despite attempting to battle the chaser effect,I ended up caving in back to old ways i.e. masturbating vigorously with my hand every day/evening . Four days ago I started abstaining with no goal or intention in mind. I recall just feeling like I didn't want to mb that evening. Now, after some pondering, I've made a conscious decision and commitment- to go 116 days (my ABS record) or more which takes me to September 1st. My outlook to this ABS is simply this..... I want to experience more WD and the fun that ABS brings, even though it can sometimes be very challenging and draining emotionally and psychologically. I also want the achievement again, as in 2016, of breaking my previous record of ABS. I'm going to remind myslf that this period will be temporary and won't last forever, but to make this opportunity count whilst it is still available to me and to get going with it as soon as possible. No matter what happens, I go the distance and keep to the commitment of this abstinence period.
My own personal reference- #ThisTimeABSsept18

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08/05/18 start date
WD#of streak=0
ABS record=116 days in 2016
#ThisTimeABSsept18

I have previous logs that may explain my background.It might make some good bedtime reading!


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 Post subject: Re: ABS2018
PostPosted: Tue May 15, 2018 3:41 pm 
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Joined: Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:31 am
Posts: 236
Age: 26
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 5
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 14 Apr 2018
Sex: Male
Just approaching one week. I'm feeling motivated and determined right now. I plan for this to continue.
I was just thinking how powerful the chaser effect is. After just 13 days ABS last time, I tried to continue my streak, But the urges got too much for at least a week, and the week after just felt like the normal habit returned . The urges weren't necessarily related to just arousal though. It came on mostly due to stress or depression and it felt as if my brain urged me and encouraged me to get the dopamine rush from mb. Perhaps because my body and brain felt it had missed out on this during my abs, the brain does all it can to urge me to do it again and again. The lesson learned for myself, and others too I perhaps, is that the chaser effect is a very powerful process and don't be fooled into thinking that it's easy to continue ABs after you've returned it mb.

I've got a separate counter for no porn so that I'm going through the 'No Fap' process for overcoming porn addiction, as well as a separate ABS counter. Both on the same amount of days do far.

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08/05/18 start date
WD#of streak=0
ABS record=116 days in 2016
#ThisTimeABSsept18

I have previous logs that may explain my background.It might make some good bedtime reading!


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 Post subject: Re: ABS2018
PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2018 3:45 pm 
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Joined: Thu Jun 07, 2012 5:31 am
Posts: 236
Age: 26
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 5
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Shorts or pajamas with no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 14 Apr 2018
Sex: Male
Day 14

Because of my recent slip up on my last streak on day 13, I think it's helped me keep motivated to continue. Having the attitude that this is a temporary thing and to just commit to this abs for this time period, certainly helps. In general I'm feeling more arousal. I was in a filing room and a younger girl was there, perhaps 19. I felt more aroused than usual being in her presence and had the first realisation that I feel differently to when I mb. I also get harder erections from fantasising but I can shut it down pretty quickly too if I want to. Also it's been getting warmer so it's nice to sleep naked. It feels good when my penis rubs against the sheets, even though I'm mostly flaccid, although there's no deliberate stimulation.

I had a dream of a wet dream! It was intense at the time I just can't recall it very well now as it was early in night. I remember my pajamas bottoms filling up with sperm. I think in the dream I was aroused and had a spontaneous ejaculation. It's a good sign that my subconscious has wet dreams on its mind maybe it's getting prepared lol- I think I'll have to wait another few months for my first though judging by past experiences

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08/05/18 start date
WD#of streak=0
ABS record=116 days in 2016
#ThisTimeABSsept18

I have previous logs that may explain my background.It might make some good bedtime reading!


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