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Hey everyone! I'm not exactly new here, some of you may recognize me from the chat room. But this is my first post on the forum, so I think it'd be good to say a little bit about how I got here.
As a kid, I discovered MB pretty early on, so I never really had the chance to get WDs the way most people describe them, as they're going through puberty. (Think of all the WDs I missed out on... ) Anyway, I was pretty addicted to MB in my teens. I would do it whenever I felt (sexually) frustrated. At the most, I once MBed for every single day in a month, usually a couple times in a row too. (This is a habit that I still haven't really broken... when I MB, I never do it only once.) I did it in my bedroom, the locker room, and even outside... but no matter what I did or how much I did it, I never really felt release. I know this sounds weird, but it was difficult to enjoy, and it made me feel more frustrated than before. It never seemed like enough...
Then, I realized that I never had a WD, which was a different way of experiencing release. I had woken up partway through some extremely strange sensations as a teen, but I didn't realize what they were, and most of the time I just thought they were night terrors or something else. I thought I would try having one, to see if it was better than MBing. But that meant... I had to learn how to abstain.
Well, I won't bore you with the details, but it was pretty difficult, especially for someone who was used to whipping his dick out every time he felt like it. But over time I've learned to control myself a little better. After having my first WD a few years ago, I didn't know what to think at first. The experience was very different, I realized that it was at least better than what I was used to. Cutting down on my excessive MB habits actually seems to calm my frustration down, and so do WDs.
So, long story short, I found this forum when I was trying to figure out how to have WDs more often or bring one on when I felt like I needed one. I'm still in the process of adjusting to an AB lifestyle, and I won't lie, I still feel frustrated often. But I think overall, this could be a good change for me. So with that, I'm going to start a log! I hope to get to know you guys here on the forum! Day one... bring it on. XD

Welcome the logs and journals section
GOOD LUCK 2x4

Thanks Charly!

Well, day 3 so far. Last night, I almost thought I was close, because my MW was pretty strong. It turned out though, I just needed to use the bathroom, so there's that. XD Other than that, there's not much to report. I'm just ploddin' along, trying to keep my hands off the dang thing!

Well it's been a while since I last checked in and I regret to say I have relapsed 3 times since then. Sigh... I'd write more but I feel kind of demotivated right now. I mean, it only felt amazing for maybe 30 seconds and then the urge would come at me again real hard. Something I've had to learn the hard way is that edging never ends well for me. When I eventually spurt it out by accident, the feeling is kinda ruined... Not the way it is when you're intentionally jerking it loud and proud. Even though the resulting load is obviously quite, uh, sexy, I'm still feeling as frustrated as ever. It's just not enough... But I won't give up!! Just, uh, give me one more day and I'll be set. I think.

Well, restarting again today. Wish me luck, 'cause I'll need it!

hey 2x4
So good luck...but i think willpower would be more useful in you case ....
Stay strong

Recently on day four I wanted to cum so badly, but the urges subsided and now I'm on day 18. The first week is the hardest... be strong. You can do it!

Great job on getting to day 18 slider!

Thanks, Charly and Slider. You two have done a really good job yourselves!

Today's day 4, and so far I don't think there's much to report. I'm just doing my best!

Day 6... ahh, I edged through the night. Sigh. A bad idea, because now I have blue balls. But I won't give in!

Day 8: I had a dream that I was jacking off... and I woke up to another intense case of blue balls. I couldn't help but edge a bit, but I quickly stopped myself, because I knew I wouldn't last long if I kept going.

Day 9: Last night, I was edging (no surprise there) when I felt the call of nature, lol. Well, I was... pushing, until I noticed my dick throb a little, and I actually leaked semen, but it was only around two or three drops. I think my prostate was stimulated, because after I finished I had an edging session and it was the best feeling I've had in months. Seriously, it was insane. I didn't break my AB streak, but it was such a strong feeling that I could have sworn I was high on something XDDD I couldn't help but be noisy, which is saying something. Usually I try to stay quiet, but it was so good I couldn't help myself, lol. It was better than any MB session I've had this whole year. Well, I'm still hoping for a WD soon though!

Something similar has happened to me. At times I will have what's called a "ruined orgasm". Actually it's not ruined at all... just no ejaculation. To have a ruined orgasm I approach the point of no return several times, then on the last approach, do just the minimum amount of stimulation, just barely enough to tip the balance and begin to feel the orgasm. This has to be done very slowly or a full orgasm will occur. Then stop and don't move. Usually I will feel like I'm having an orgasm without contractions, and nothing is ejaculated. There is no penile compression to hold semen in. Sometimes a drop or two will leak out, or I can squeeze a drop out. What may have happened to you is you stopped just short of a full orgasm, causing a small amount of semen to enter the ejaculatory ducts, but not be forced out with contractions.

Hmm, thanks for explaining it Slider. That's pretty much what happened to me. I'm just checking in here at day 11. It's been my lucky day before, but I'm not hoping for much, just keeping my fingers crossed...

Checkin' in at day 15. I've had progressively stronger hard-ons these days, sometimes to the point where I feel weak in the knees, haha. Other than that, there isn't much to report on the home front. I'm hoping I won't have to wait much longer, because these days I get hot and bothered pretty frequently.

You're doing great, 2x4! Keep up (no pun intended) the good work!

Congrats on reaching day 15. You are now at the point that you can actually enjoy being horny and full. Sometimes it feels really good to just lie still in bed and concentrate on how horny you are and how much semen you must be holding. It's very empowering to feel that way and know that you don't have to jack off to "relieve" the feeling. T-buzz is probably in full force giving you extra energy and determination to accomplish things you need to do. For me, T-buzz is like a mood altering drug that has no side effects, is all natural, and is free. Urges will still appear at times, but will subside without doing anything.

It is entirely normal for a man to always feel horny, full and ready. Enjoy the feeling.
One more thought... Things will go easier if you don't consider yourself to be "abstaining" from cumming. Abstaining from something that is desired rarely works, and if it does, the abstainer is usually miserable. But if you think of it as going natural, and feeling the normal way a man should feel, then it can be very pleasant. Enjoy.

Thanks caveywavy and Slider! I'm on day 17 now and still hangin' in there!

Day 18. I've been feeling the flat-line effect start to kick in, so today I had a hot bath and, uh, enjoyed it. Yup.

The flatline phase can be tricky. You can start to wonder if everything still works. You ask yourself if you should test it to make sure. Don't be fooled. It all works just fine. Or a sudden urge to cum will hit. I have failed several times when this happens. The urge will go away if you can just wait awhile. Eventually an equilibrium will be established where you will be pleasantly horny and full, but without an urge to end the feeling. Be strong, patient and enjoy the ride.

For sure, Slider. Checkin' in at day 22. Yesterday night, I had an... interesting dream. But not enough to put me over the edge.

Today's day 24. I thought the worst of it was over, but... apparently not. Two days ago, I felt pretty sore, especially in my back and legs. I guess I kind of overdid it with physical activity. Well, the next day, I had swim practice. And guess what stroke it was? That's right, backstroke! It was brutal. It wasn't that the set was harder than usual, I just felt so drained. I was cramping in my abs and lower back especially for some reason. And to add to all of it, practice went longer than normal!
So they say if you ever feel horny and you're trying to resist the urge to beat your meat, you should do some physical activity. Go for a swim, run, etc. Well, it's normally true for me; working out does seem to take the edge off. But for some reason, I felt pretty weird all over, like that feeling you get when you've jerked it too much. I had the same winded feeling you get after a particularly strong orgasm, but also the aches and pains of pushing yourself too far physically. Except, obviously, I haven't busted one out in three weeks.
I'm not sure I can fully describe it, but anyway, I haven't felt that tired in a long time. I grabbed onto the wall and just... panted. Like a dog, haha. I hope it didn't seem too sexual because I'm not the only one on the team, of course. And my coach watches us like a hawk to make sure we don't skip sets.
Last night, after showering, I edged a little in bed, but nothing really that much, just in hopes it might trigger a WD that night. Well, it didn't, and now I'm here today writing this, still sore and everything. I hope I don't have to wait too much longer... maybe after I'm feeling back to 100%?

Today's day 25. Yesterday, I went to the gym despite feeling sore (probably against my better judgement) and decided I'd take a break from the lifting and do some cardio. I ran on the treadmill until I was pretty exhausted... and then I had the same weird feeling I described.
I was really pushing myself, and this is going to sound weird, but as I was running I got a boner. For some reason, it felt really, really nice. Well, maybe because my tent was sort of bouncing as I ran, and my pants were getting tight, but anyway, it was the same feeling I get when I'm extremely sexually aroused... you know, when you're in the thick of it.
I have no idea why this is, but maybe it's because this is the most physical activity I've had in a month or two. Well, I guess it's on me for taking too long of a break. I have more swim practice today, so let's see what happens.

Congratulations on "going natural" for 25 days. Have you begun to enjoy being horny and full, without feeling deprived of relief? There's no need to relieve anything. It's a normal, pleasurable condition. Once you get past the feeling of deprivation, you can really enjoy the AB process. Strong sexual tension is very empowering and rewarding. Keep it going.

Haha, Slider, I still feel kinda deprived, to be honest. It's day 26: Last night, I edged for the first time in a couple of days. Man, the first few strokes felt mind-blowing. But... after a while it just felt frustrating instead. I'm kinda getting impatient over here, lol.

Day 27: Last night, I remember being slowly awakened by my throbbing hard-on and blue balls that felt like I was still getting over from being kicked in the nutsack. Ugh, I hate it when this happens. It's like I was about to have a WD, and I just wake up because my body isn't used to cumming when I'm asleep. Obviously, it was a little difficult to fall asleep again, but I managed. Here's hoping I don't have too many more nights like this, because it really messes with my sleep schedule.

Ayy, I'm checkin' in on the 4 week mark! That's day 28, to be exact. When I woke up today, I had a very similar feeling to last night's: I had a pulsing, leaking hard-on and a dull ache from blue balls. It's pretty maddening, I won't lie. But! I'm thankful I made it this far. It's been a long time coming... or perhaps I should say a long time not coming XP I thought it would be hard, and yes, it has been, but there are some things I did this time around that made a difference. I think that logging and talking to all of you guys here has especially helped. It's nice to know that I'm not alone <3 Here's to another four weeks!

Day 29: Woke up the same way I have the past two nights, except this time my dick was harder. When I fully awoke I didn't dare move for a few uncomfortable moments in case I couldn't hold it back anymore. I guess this is my new morning routine... it's the most extreme morning wood I've had in months, to be sure.