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 Post subject: wetdreamerau log
PostPosted: Thu Sep 28, 2017 11:16 pm 
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Joined: Thu Sep 28, 2017 12:46 am
Posts: 2
Age: 28
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 5
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 7
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 13 Sep 2017
Sex: Male
Day 15
No WD, introduction

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Hey everyone. Sorry for the long post, a bit to get off my chest it seems.

Backgroun/How AB feels to me

I discovered this site a few days ago, after AB for relationship reasons (no sex, masturbation as crutch, needing life change). To be honest I got completely tired of wanking and I would not get hard while doing it. It wasn't a matter of frequency (only a couple of times a week) but I think a mental one. I just hate myself for doing it for so long instead of focusing on myself, and my needs in relationships. Hiding my masturbation in a no sex relationship felt shameful. I am ready to change my thinking as well as my habits, I am no longer satisfied with MB and would rather go without and retain my dignity.

Definitely feeling a lot more "in the moment"/focused/happy/confident while AB. Eye contact with girls is more vivid, I SEE them more, not just the eyes but their whole face, it's amazing! I am feeling more confident I'm able to appreciate looking at their faces more rather than avoiding it.

Checking girls out has been a habitual thing for years. Being in a relationship there hasn't been any option open. Like eye contact was before AB, checking them out was brief and without feeling. Now I look and actually feel something about it, a race of excitement with the worry of being caught rather than it just being a habitual thing. I long for interaction with women and platonic touching, I want to KNOW them and be friends with them. They are people too and it seems a shame to not have more of them in my life. I feel more confident/relaxed with communication with others (either sex) and a lot more optimistic for the future, so I am hoping that helps.

My cock looks better than ever (not ashamed to admit to checking it out twice a day). Resting cock is larger (grower not a shower) and just feels plain warmer (more blood flow ftw). Semi hard on's and tingling through the day are amazing, making me feel more in tune with my body. Precum production has started back up, though only when turned on. I am hoping that improves because I used to get a lot during more sexual times of my life (i.e. when not masturbating).

Natural erections are great and I love the intense feeling of the hard on, and that tingling feeling when your balls retract as it grows. When I was MB it just seemed all mechanical. Fire up some porn, great there is some blood in there, lets go for a dopamine release, so I never really appreciated the feeling of just a hard on.

WD and my goals

I realised that I might eventually get a WD and that got me excited, so I started googling around for how to get one sooner. Read through all the posts last night (jessieboy's videos were fascinating! I would love to see the private ones). I have to admit it was quite hard last night to avoid MB and was pumped to get a WD. No resulting WD though. It will be over 12 years since I had one, being frequent masturbator since young teen (also started sex early). I did have a strange feeling this morning after waking, it felt like a tapping/trembling feeling between/behind my penis/balls. It felt great and I can't help but feeling I may be close.

I no longer feel like I have to masturbate. I'm not a NoFapper (some of that subreddit seems toxic), I want WD in my life as I think it would indicate a better mental frame of mind, healthy life and healthy relationships. I cannot recall if I have had WD during my sexual periods, but I am pretty sure I have when things have been amazing. The more the better I say!

Having read a lot of posts, I picked up some Lectin and Zinc today as I heard they increase volume/production. I am hoping that might push things over the edge. I've also had the desire to increase volume during my masturbation days but never tried it (mainly a fantasy).

I have also been taking St Johns Wort + Valerian on and off for more stable mood and better sleep, so hopefully that helps induce WD.

I'll look to continue this log at least until I achieve a WD. I have heard writing things down helps with offloading from the mind, so if it interests you to read the log that's an added bonus.

Wish me luck in my attempts to get a WD, and more and more!


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 Post subject: Re: wetdreamerau log
PostPosted: Fri Sep 29, 2017 3:38 am 
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Joined: Thu Jul 28, 2016 11:06 pm
Posts: 1142
Location: france
Age: 43
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 6
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 16 Jun 2016
Sex: Male
hey wetdreamera
:text-welcomewave: :text-goodpost: :text-welcomewave:
Welcome to WDF,
i hope we will have you around for a while, maybe up to your next WD. (not sure when you had your first ?)
Starting a journal in the Wet Dream Diaries, Logs and Journals section an post is good
i'm sure you will also get a lot of support from guys here if you're struggling or having doubts about quitting (either MB or AB).
Reading other guys Journal might helps also
If you need the chat room is open 24/7, a lot of good guy might help as well on any subject that's definitively a free speech place
every is welcome, and always happy to meet other forum's member.
Whenever you feel ready to go there you will be welcome
.... :teasing-blah: :teasing-blah:
To get to the chat ...just click on "Chat Room" in any page of the forum


last point
Hornyness can be enjoyable, for most of people WD are a way better orgasm than MB (we would probably not ABing for weeks of not)
So it's all about good feeling, joy, and pleasure So don't put too much pressure on you :banana-dance:


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 Post subject: Re: wetdreamerau log
PostPosted: Fri Sep 29, 2017 8:58 pm 
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Joined: Thu Sep 28, 2017 12:46 am
Posts: 2
Age: 28
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 5
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 7
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 13 Sep 2017
Sex: Male
Thanks charly, I might check out the chat room

Day 16
No WD, bit of a flat day

Drank way too much water but had a glorious hard-on when woken early in my sleep cycle (~1 hour). I wish I could have just enjoyed it and gone back to sleep. It was very hard to pee as it wanted to stay up, and the relief kept making it hard again.

Lasts
  • Last MB: 16 days
  • Last sex: 9 months
  • Last WD: 12 years?
  • Last SE: Never
  • Last HF: Never

Last Night recap
  • Spicy dinner: No
  • Water before bed: At least 3.5 cups
  • WD: No
  • NE: No
  • Remember dreams: No
  • LD: No
  • Wake for urination: Yes
  • MW: Yes
  • Night time leaking: No stains
  • Estimated Sleep Duration: 7 hrs (additional 30min lost due to bathroom break)

Today
  • Well rested: No
  • Morning "Fog": Yes
  • Hornyness: No
  • Boners: weak semi's/ball contraction
  • Blue balls: No
  • Day time leaking: No stains, very small amount (clear) whilst nude
  • Desire to MB: No
  • MB: No
  • Edging: No
  • Porn: No
  • Kegels: Yes

Supplements
  • Lecithin: 1200mg
  • Zinc: 25mg (Manganese 2mg, B6 10mg)
  • Fish Oil: 3000mg
  • Vit D: 1000IU
  • Hypericin (St John's Wort): 2mg
  • Valerian: 2g


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