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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 4:24 pm 
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Hi, I'm Nathanael.

I've AB many times before for up to three weeks. I would lapse back into MB but try again months later because the idea of a WD or even just a nighttime erection that I don't do anything about is very exciting. The problem is I've couldn't wait it out and see what would happen. I want a sense of control, but that control comes at a cost: just wanting to MB more because I can't get that super aroused feeling again for at least several days. So I have to look for porn, which I never like to get that extreme with but I'm still frustrated because I don't feel that aroused by it and I'm straining sometimes to feel. Letting go of control over when I get aroused and when I ejaculate is itself arousing, but because I'm not sure I will eventually have a WD or SE if I AB for a long enough time there is a sense of what's the use in trying and I lose my excitement about it. However, in this attempt at AB to see how long I can go and see what happens, I have a few ideas about what will make this a more interesting journey.

I've thought about posting here before and am scared a little because of what might happen. I often feel obligated to live up to other people's expectations and the dependencies. If I feel like I can't do it I don't want to feel guilt or a failure. I know I don't have to commit to being on here and if I go back to MB then there's no real shame in doing so, it's what I really want to do. I also feel it's a little weird to talk to a bunch of people online about something I never talk to other people about, but maybe I need some company as I explore a part of my sexuality that I've never been able to fully push.

Lately, I decided to try AB again because I was watching porn and realized it may be more exciting to not touch my penis and only do kegels and see what would happen. I started doing some contractions and didn't feel much. As I started to become more erect I would feel the tip of my foreskin rubbing a little inside my boxers and against my pajama pants. It was a little feeling and I ended up with pre-cum, but not enough to make me get anywhere near cumming all the way. I decided maybe I would try doing kegels in the future while watching porn because it would let me focus more on what I was feeling in the moment both with the mental arousal while watching the porn and in the physical arousal I would experience in masturbation if I wasn't watching porn at the time. Just playing with the kegels made me think of trying to get better at them and maybe get better at using them as a way to get more aroused without porn. So I started doing some upon waking with MW during the night or when I'd get up in the morning. Since doing kegels is hands free I don't count them as MB. I started seeing how aroused I could get without masturbation and now I want to see how far I can take this.

I started thinking of AB differently, not as just not ejaculating by my own hand, but experience more hands free and porn free sexual stimulation. I also am thinking of allowing nighttime stimulation and not trying to avoid it, so I have a few ground rules I am following: (1) no touching my penis with my hands or anything else in anyway to cause sexual stimulation; (2) no trying to stop natural nighttime sexual stimulus and maybe even encourage it without breaking rule 1, they have to subside on their own and do whatever they do (no trying to find a less stimulating position if I'm conscious of it); (3) try to sleep or rest as much as I can through nighttime arousal; (4) no getting out of bed unless it is an emergency, if I have to pee I stay in bed until the alarm goes off and it is time to get out of bed unless I am imminently going to wet the bed; (5) if I can't sleep I am free to do kegels and focus on being aroused; and (6) I can wear whatever I want to bed (tight underwear, boxers, nude, jockstrap), but once I've put it on in the way I've put it on I can't take it off or adjust it unless it is causing a fair amount of pain.

So far, last night I fell asleep on the couch and woke up with an erection. I stayed slightly asleep and started doing kegels for a while, when I got up I felt a little wet stop on my boxers from the pre-cum. I moved to my bed eventually and when I woke up I did the same thing and had a long string of pre-cum dangling from my penis when I had a bowel movement in the restroom. So I think there may be some hope yet to explore what lies ahead of me in an exploration of long-term AB and seeing what my body does with it.

I'll come back here to give interesting updates as my journey continues and occasionally update an approximate time I've been ABing for.


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PostPosted: Tue May 23, 2017 7:53 pm 
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hey Nathanael.
:text-welcomewave: :text-goodpost: :text-welcomewave:
Welcome to WDF, more exactly Welcome to WDF as an "active member" because it seems you're a member for a while,
but you took a step forward recently with your first post
, i hope we will have you around for a while, maybe up to your next WD. (not sure when you had your first ?)

Starting a journal in the Wet Dream Diaries, Logs and Journals section an post is good
i'm sure you will also get a lot of support from guys here if you're struggling or having doubts about quitting (either MB or AB).
Reading other guys Journal might helps also
If you need the chat room is open 24/7, a lot of good guy might help as well on any subject that's definitively a free speech place
every is welcome, and always happy to meet other forum's member.
Whenever you feel ready to go there you will be welcome
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To get to the chat ...just click on "Chat Room" in any page of the forum


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Hornyness can be enjoyable, for most of people WD are a way better orgasm than MB (we would probably not ABing for weeks of not)
So it's all about good feeling, joy, and pleasure So don't put too much pressure on you :banana-dance:


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PostPosted: Wed May 24, 2017 4:42 am 
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Welcome to the forum. Be assured there is no shame in "failing". MB is an addiction that can be made to go into remission, but it may take a number of tries. I had some short, then longer runs before I made the commitment to never MB again. That was 222 day ago. So far I have not had a release of any kind since Oct 13, 2016. And I have never felt better.

I allow myself non-genital stimulation just before going to sleep at night. Usually I will have a very strong erection and will be horny. Just knowing that MB is not an option, allows me to enjoy the feeling and go to sleep. As stated by Charly in the previous post, being horny and full can be a very enjoyable feeling... not one that needs to be relieved.

Good luck, and don't underestimate your will power. Habits and addictions are hard to break, but in the end it's worth it.


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PostPosted: Wed May 24, 2017 10:41 am 
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charlythemoose wrote:
hey Nathanael.
:text-welcomewave: :text-goodpost: :text-welcomewave:
Welcome to WDF, more exactly Welcome to WDF as an "active member" because it seems you're a member for a while,
but you took a step forward recently with your first post
, i hope we will have you around for a while, maybe up to your next WD. (not sure when you had your first ?)

Starting a journal in the Wet Dream Diaries, Logs and Journals section an post is good
i'm sure you will also get a lot of support from guys here if you're struggling or having doubts about quitting (either MB or AB).
Reading other guys Journal might helps also
If you need the chat room is open 24/7, a lot of good guy might help as well on any subject that's definitively a free speech place
every is welcome, and always happy to meet other forum's member.
Whenever you feel ready to go there you will be welcome
.... :teasing-blah: :teasing-blah:
To get to the chat ...just click on "Chat Room" in any page of the forum


last point
Hornyness can be enjoyable, for most of people WD are a way better orgasm than MB (we would probably not ABing for weeks of not)
So it's all about good feeling, joy, and pleasure So don't put too much pressure on you :banana-dance:


Thank you for the welcome!

I remember wetting the bed once when I was too old to do so. I think that was possibly a WD around my pre-teen years, otherwise I've never had WD.


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PostPosted: Wed May 24, 2017 11:09 am 
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Slider wrote:
Welcome to the forum. Be assured there is no shame in "failing". MB is an addiction that can be made to go into remission, but it may take a number of tries. I had some short, then longer runs before I made the commitment to never MB again. That was 222 day ago. So far I have not had a release of any kind since Oct 13, 2016. And I have never felt better.

I allow myself non-genital stimulation just before going to sleep at night. Usually I will have a very strong erection and will be horny. Just knowing that MB is not an option, allows me to enjoy the feeling and go to sleep. As stated by Charly in the previous post, being horny and full can be a very enjoyable feeling... not one that needs to be relieved.

Good luck, and don't underestimate your will power. Habits and addictions are hard to break, but in the end it's worth it.


Thanks for the welcome!

Right now I'm at a stage where my brain is saying "I want to get off", but without MB I don't know how that is possible. In the past I would allow myself to MB to right before the point of no return and stop. I think that took the edge off and just led me back to MB again. Now, I really feel it in my brain and I remind myself that MB is not an option and I will have to explore how aroused I can get during the nighttime without consciously trying to. To me that means not even stimulating myself non-genitally, but we'll see. I'm exploring it, which is different than trying to work toward a goal. Right now I'm just trying to get used to not MB as my immediate thought when I feel horny and enjoy the ride.

I'm sure there will be a series of changes that occur in my habits and responses to various stimuli. Just going to take it one step at a time ;)


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Hello Nathanael,

Welcome to the WDF. Please always write in whenever you have doubts in overcoming your addiction. We are all here to support and to encourage. Do not let your past failures to determine your future success. Do your best in your present time!

Good luck! :whistle:

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PostPosted: Thu May 25, 2017 11:12 am 
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Thanks for the welcome, Hoban!

Today is around the one week mark (I couldn't remember the exact day last week). In the past I would both take the edge off with MB but no O, or if I was without privacy I would just look forward to when I did have privacy and would MB. This time is different because I am not MB at all (I can feel the habit there though; I have a slight headache and I pause sometimes because I have a habit of MB in certain circumstances like the shower) and I am telling myself there is no MB to look forward to. This is incredibly frustrating, but also great fun! I don't think I ever had the attitude that not being in control was enjoyable and that my body would respond in the way that it is. A big part of my motivation for doing this is to find something more enjoyable than the PMO cycle which I have found so disappointing. Deciding I am not in control and to see what happens is a moment by moment exploration of what AB means for me.

I have long had fantasies of sexual frustration/horniness. But I used them to fuel MB. Early on I was disappointed in MB and how empty/short it was. Maybe this is what I have been looking for in 15+ of MB all along. I don't think I should feel much regret for not having done this earlier because I just wasn't ready, but this time I really feel like I want to know what my body and mind do with long term AB. I used to want to quit MB because I felt guilty about the release. Everything up to the release was great, but it was a let down because it was over and I felt guilty about what I'd done and it's result. After years of working with the guilt and now trying to accept that I will probably release at some point whether I like it or not, I may come to better acceptance of my sexuality in general. Letting go of control may allow me to fully enjoy my sexuality for what it is.

Today I woke up and felt I was not as horny I thought I should be. What I've been finding is that is an expectation of my body to respond a certain way at a certain time. Later in the day I felt everything from an intensified feeling of my bladder being full, bowel movements causing extra pressure, to a sensation like I wanted to sneeze but it wasn't in my nose but deep in my abdomen. In the past I would think "Oh, I want to MB", but now I think MB is not option, what will happen? It's a little scary to not be in control, but nothing harmful will happen to me, maybe even something wonderful will happen. :banana-dance:

It's time to find out!


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PostPosted: Fri May 26, 2017 10:06 pm 
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Humped a little in bed when I woke up, is that something to avoid?

A couple confounding factors I've thought about is (1) I'm taking an antidepressant (Lexapro, 20 mg) that may effect my libido and (2) I'm 5'8" and 204 lbs., also could affect my libido. Both are not necessarily permanent conditions so they may change. Anybody else take a medication or maintain a higher weight that effected their libido?


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hey Njs 5891
humping bed :handgestures-thumbdown: :naughty: :naughty:
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it's better to avoid unless you're sure to be in control.
some antidepressant are know to affect the libido, i just had a look while writing this and i see that a big yes and on many level :( for lexapro
weight i'm not that sure maybe it could cause some erectil disfuction but on libido i don't know


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PostPosted: Wed May 31, 2017 12:09 am 
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I dreamt I was MB all the way to ejaculation in the palm of my hand. It felt good in the dream to have a release, but it was dry when I woke up. In the dream I felt a little bad that I had ended my AB but did it anyways, thankfully it was just a dream.

Glad to see my subconscious is starting to generate some content before even a whole two weeks into AB. I don't usually dream about sex much, I hope it keeps it up and I see some more interesting content as time goes by.


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Njs5891 wrote:
I dreamt I was MB all the way to ejaculation in the palm of my hand. It felt good in the dream to have a release, but it was dry when I woke up. In the dream I felt a little bad that I had ended my AB but did it anyways, thankfully it was just a dream.

Glad to see my subconscious is starting to generate some content before even a whole two weeks into AB. I don't usually dream about sex much, I hope it keeps it up and I see some more interesting content as time goes by.


The only issue is that it shutdowns the mind and tries to prevent the release. If your mind didn't interfere, the dream may have lasted long enough to induce a WD.

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I assumed there would be some getting used to and open to nighttime arousal. I usually would avoid it, sleeping on my side with loose boxers or PJs, getting up to use the restroom with only a half full bladder, etc. Dreaming about a short MB session isn't really getting me anywhere, I'll have to give my subconscious chance to register: (a) I'm not going to MB awake, (b) nighttime arousal is okay and desirable, (c) nighttime release is okay and desirable, and (d) let go of controlling the process and letting it happen.

To help things along, I'm going to try to sleep on my back with my legs spread apart. I've found that position to be very stimulating while awake. I think I'll not wear anything below the waist for a while too, to see if that helps. We'll see...


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At about two and a half weeks into AB I feel like some of the benefits of this experience have more to do with taking a closer look at how I relate to and use my sexuality, rather than hoping for some sort of result.

I am sure I will resume MB at some point, but with a different attitude and approach. Most of all I think this experience will help me get a sense that I don't have to use porn at all. I've known that because I didn't use it much in my teens, but I began to use it for increasing the frequency of my MB sessions and getting an erection. I tried to keep the content pretty tame with mostly soft-core stuff, but if I lose interest in it maybe it is best to try to get into better sync with my body, what it desires, and other stimuli. I also am seeing that I don't have to MB often and probably should pay more attention to how my body is feeling and work with it more. Feeling your natural and raw libido is a nice experience. For the most enjoyment out of sexual activities it is probably good to make them expressions of the natural rhythms of the body. It's good if sexuality is a part of life and enriches it, not a separate thing that is only focused on getting off as many times as possible.

As a part of this experience I'm also paying attention to how I relate to women I'm physically attracted to. I'm noticing two things: (1) I feel less pressure in talking to them if I'm not concerned about whether there is a sexual result coming out of the interaction with them and (2) I feel like I would much enjoy being physically close to them without sexual expectations. I hope to eventually develop a relationship and see where that goes someday. AB for a period of time gives me a better sense of the possibility to use my sexuality in a constructive manner and even enjoy the times when sex will not be so frequent. That was a serious fear and I think it is better to have a sense that I can make it through dry times when they come.


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Hey Nathanael, it's been awhile, are you still abstaining?

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No not as of recently, but maybe an occasional AB period is good. I'll think about it.


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I say I go on an AB streak. How long is a good starting point, 30 days?

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Hey there, Njs! 30 days is a solid goal to go for in my book, long enough to really break the habit. However long you decide to go for, just do your best. And don't be afraid to hop into chat if you're feeling a bit overwhelmed, we don't bite!


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Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 04 Sep 2017
Sex: Male
Day 2 :handgestures-thumbup:

Usually on the second day I don't feel that much, but I do feel the sensation that I did not come yesterday. Day five is usually the one where I begin the almost constant feeling that I haven't MB in a while. I'm trying to avoid too much touching of my penis in general or touching it in a way to cause ejaculation. I do pull back my foreskin and leave it to feel the inside of my pants or whatever else it naturally touches.

Last night I slept in the nude with just a sheet over me most of the night. When I sleep with nothing on I find it more noticeable when my penis is touching something like the sheets or the mattress. My foreskin also more easily retracts on its own which I find arousing. Last night I woke up needing to urinate and erect. I decided to lie in bed for a while and enjoy the feelings of my glans gently touching the sheets. Eventually I got up to use the restroom and noticed I was wet with pre-cum. It was difficult to urinate while so aroused. I tried a few positions I've heard could work for such a situation, but still found myself peeing outside the toilet a bit; will have to work on that. After I went back to bed I had a erection for a while and eventually fell back asleep.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 10, 2017 2:59 pm 
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Posts: 14
Location: Chicagoland, IL
Age: 32
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 1
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 04 Sep 2017
Sex: Male
Day 5

Still hanging in there. Horniness comes and goes. No pain. If at any point this becomes painful, I'll stop and MB to release. Hopefully some interesting dream content like last time comes soon, but I waited at least two weeks.

In some ways I've felt this is not so much a stopping MB but moving it to during sleep rather than awake. Some people have described it as MB in your sleep. I guess I'll see what I think the differences are. Any thoughts out there on whether WD are just MB in your sleep?

There was a story I read online about a guy describing his nighttime arousal stories and the various things he would wear to bed to enjoy the nighttime sensations as his erection cycles occurred during the night. I have often found it difficult to have the self control and patience to enjoy such a thing. Maybe trying for WD or just AB with a specific goal in mind to start with will give me something to work toward.


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 14, 2017 2:17 pm 
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Location: Chicagoland, IL
Age: 32
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 1
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 04 Sep 2017
Sex: Male
Day 9

At over a week I don't feel an intolerable urge to MB, but there is some feeling that it would feel good to have a release. It feels like I am simply denying myself from MB so I am waiting for either a completion of my AB period or possible WD. I've thought about waiting twice as long as I originally thought and go for 60 days. My reasoning is based on some data I saw on the forum that says something like 90% of people would have their first WD in two months, so it is very likely that if I wait 60 days that I will have one and if not then maybe this isn't for me.

60 days is quite a while but it will be doable. Hopefully it isn't too boring the entire time :whistle:


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 14, 2017 11:02 pm 
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Joined: Sat Mar 06, 2010 12:00 am
Posts: 596
Location: Mid-Atlantic USA
Age: 28
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 0
Circumcised or Uncut?: Circumcised (Cut)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 1
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 03 Jul 2017
Sex: Male
You might have a better mental outlook if you don't consider AB to be denying yourself something that you would like to do. Not masturbating is normal. The horny, full feeling is natural and enjoyable. It is very difficult to do (or not do) anything long term if you feel like you are doing (or not doing) something you really want to do (or not do). Embrace the concept, enjoy the ride. As for me, I finally made the commitment not to have AB "runs" with end points. My goal is to never MB again. I might have a slip-up, but the overall plan is no more MB.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2017 12:00 pm 
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Posts: 14
Location: Chicagoland, IL
Age: 32
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 1
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxers
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 04 Sep 2017
Sex: Male
Just past three weeks, six more days until the 30 day mark!

30 days will be the longest I've ever gone and I'm enjoying the way I feel. I'm still thinking I may continue to 60 days depending on if I feel in anyway that MB will be a disappointment, which is usually the case after a long period of AB. I expect MB to be amazing but it's usually over quickly and leaves me wondering if that is all there is to it.

I've started watching arousing videos on YouTube again, but do not intend to MB. Hopefully that fuels some dreams especially if my mind gets the hint that MB is not an option for outlet. I still think I am abstaining from MB, but I hope eventually I will feel that I am really enjoying the feelings that come from not MB and find an other outlet. Another outlet could be WD or a girlfriend.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 29, 2017 3:45 am 
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Joined: Thu Jul 28, 2016 11:06 pm
Posts: 1092
Location: france
Age: 43
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 6
Circumcised or Uncut?: Uncut (Intact)
Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 16 Jun 2016
Sex: Male
hey Nsj5891
Stay strong and
good luck with WD or girlfriend
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