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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Mon Nov 02, 2015 6:15 am 
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Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 95
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Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 2
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 24 Mar 2016
Sex: Male
Big congrats on your wedding, Lorenzo!


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Mon Nov 02, 2015 7:08 am 
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Age: 37
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Thank you Dreamito! I am really glad we did it! ;)

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2017: Releases
Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Mon Nov 02, 2015 8:12 am 
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Age: 43
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 25
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Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 10
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Other
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 20 May 2017
Sex: Male
Congratulations on the wedding! I'm glad to hear you didn't hold back on the wedding night. Intimacy with a committed partner should be beautiful and fulfilling. I would continue to see it that way, and wouldn't really count an orgasm as a "reset" in any way. AB from MB and porn will only make those experiences with your partner that much better, as you described in your recent post.


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Tue Nov 03, 2015 10:06 am 
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Location: Germany
Age: 37
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 41
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 3 No Ejaculation
Day 40 No MTO
Day 26 Porn Free
Day 1 No Edging (by myself)

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@Davo: Thank you ;) Yes, I also see it this way. It was simply natural to have sex during the wedding night ;) But I must confess that due to excessive edging over the past years, when we are having sex I still don't always get or stay hard without MB or external stimuli apart from my husband. (Wow, the first time I write this..) :)
On the other hand last night, staying hard was not an issue...

Monday: Last night I went to bed early, everything done, tired but horny. I got a message from the admin that now I have excess to the AMP Forum. Curious as I was I went there, read some posts, got hard and started to mb. Within minutes I forgot everything, stripped naked, lay on my back and spread my legs. After a month without mb I felt so horny, I moaned and enjoyed the feeling of mbing my penis more than I can say.. I edged for 90 minutes, sweating and sobbing in pure bliss, trying to stop in between but that did not work. Eventually I did stop and fell asleep with my hardon in my hand.
Instead of having horny dreams I slept unsteady and woke up several times. This morning I woke up with MW, which I only stroked a little and peed away in the shower...
Still, I am feeling horny and it is only day 3. And only November, 2... Still 28 days to go..
As for today I will not cum nor stroke..

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2017: Releases
Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Wed Nov 04, 2015 7:41 pm 
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Age: 37
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 41
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 5 No Ejaculation
Day 42 No MTO
Day 0 Porn Free
Day 0 No Edging (by myself)

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Wednesday: First things first - I gloriously failed in the NoFapNovember Challenge. Since Monday I have been masturbating and edging practically every two hours.. Before going to bed, in the middle of the night, in the morning after I woke up, in the evening after work... I have been watching amateur masturbation videos I still had on my ipad, read sex stories etc.
I guess if I orgasmed it would be over but so the horniness increases.. Yesterday I went to the gym to do something senseful with my time. The workout was fine but afterwards I went to the steamsauna and because there was noone else and I was horny as hell I even edged in the steamsauna for 10 minutes..

I know I have two options: Orgasm and lose that immense horniness but be calm again or not orgasm and stop to touch myself. (which is the hardest part, esp. when I am in bed...) And in two days my husband would get the big load..

But I feel I don't have a real goal at the moment apart from not orgasming (until when??)

If I was single, I think it would be easy to set and reach goals like 30 days without cumming. But I have a husband who deserves a good sexlife. That makes abing for weeks impossible. And probably WDs as well.

So to be honest, I do not know where I go from here. Longtime abing and regular WDs seem impossible, holding my load and edging makes me unbearably horny, not Mbing during the week until I am with my hubby again is so hard because in the meantime I am alone and somewhat bored. Or I could MB regularly again and have an orgasm every two days. But then all the benefits from abing would be gone. And I would miss this forum...

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2017: Releases
Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2015 8:24 am 
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Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 2
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 24 Mar 2016
Sex: Male
Lorenzo, what about ABing for the week and then having a great sex night with you husband on the weekend?

I tell you 5 of 6 days of AB should suffice to get a WD. Just give it a try.


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Mon Nov 09, 2015 6:19 am 
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
@Dreamito: Yes, that is what I am about to try. But it will be hard sometimes. Remember those reasons for MB - BLAST (Bored, lonely, angry, stressed, tired) I regularly have them during the week apart from home. But I ordered myself some support from amazon. You will probably think 'now he has lost it completely' - it's a celebacy device made of clear plastic with a metal lock. I will wear that in dangerous hours, the key will be stored in the cellar - and my appartment here is under the roof. ;)


Day 1 No Ejaculation
Day 46 No MTO
Day 3 Porn Free (we put on a porn compilation with techno music last Thursday while having sex)
Day 3 No Edging (by myself)

WD(1) MW(7) SE

When my husband arrived here last Thursday, I welcomed him quite intensely... ;)
He likes Poppers, I usually don't. But then I was so horny, we shared our first poppers session and after a horny hour that felt like having sex with someone totally new I had one of the strongest orgasms of my life, if not the strongest. It went on and on and felt as if some needle was being stuck in my peehole. And I literally sprayed my semen all over the place and husband... ;)
We repeated that Saturday morning, and it was as good as the first time.
Now I am alone again and just came back from the gym. I will better wear that c-device soon. Thinking about my husband and using that poppers with him makes me horny.
Maybe I will alow myself a good MB session with poppers next week. I am curious about the experience. The rest of the days I will be abing and next Thursday I will already go back home for the weekend.

The perspective of abing throughout the week and having sex with my husband during the weekend really is the best option, spiced with a 20 minutes poppered up MB session once a month, as a reward for my patience... And a WD could accur during those other weeks when I am abing for 5-6 days...

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2017: Releases
Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Mon Nov 09, 2015 10:05 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 2
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 24 Mar 2016
Sex: Male
lorenzo wrote:
But I ordered myself some support from amazon. You will probably think 'now he has lost it completely' - it's a celebacy device made of clear plastic with a metal lock.

To each his own. But I am totally opposed to such devices. There was some time ago a thread from a forum member telling how he was using one, and I gave my opinion there already.

If you mean that "device" as a toy, fine. If you mean it a way to coarse your sexuality, I'm afraid you are going to mess up you unconscious self, and that will not be very conducive to having WDs. For it is him (your unconscious self) who weaves your dreams, and by extension your WDs.

What subtle, implicit message will your unconscious self get from you using such a device to limit, impede the free expression of your own sexuality? Not a good message, I'm afraid.

You have to unleash and encourage your unconscious sexual self. Anything with a lock, is a no no.


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Tue Nov 17, 2015 3:11 am 
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Age: 37
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 8 No Ejaculation
Day 8 No MTO
Day 8 Porn Free
Day 8 No Edging

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@Dreamito: That's right what you say about that celebacy device. I only bought it for prevention- just for those dreary afternoon hours when I am inclined to edge for hours watching xtube. Short: To prevent that waste of time and stop myself from wearing out my penis.. ;)
I have not used it once but then again last week was rather busy.

After my last entry, Sunday last week ago, I decided to masturbate before bed. I put my headphones on and watched a poppers training video for 20 minutes, taking a couple of hits and enjoyed both, to masturbate and caress myself and in the end the orgasm itself which was quite intense poppered up as I was ;)
I slept like a baby. From then on I have not touched myself AT ALL. No nipple rubbing, no caressing, nothing. I have been busy and last weekend was our actual wedding party. My hubby and I didn't even have sex, that is how busy we were. :)
Now I am back in my working apartment with some chores left, the washing etc. I am thinking about wether to MB tonight or not. My penis seems to have gotten thinner due to not being touched and my balls are aching a bit today. Not sure if I continue abing until the end of the week when my husband comes here. Or if I follow Dreamito's advice and reward myself with a good masturbation and a great orgasm just to feel good and sleep well afterwards. But first of all, there is still some work to be done. If I am too tired then, I won't MB and simply go to bed.

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2017: Releases
Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Tue Nov 17, 2015 7:17 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 2
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 24 Mar 2016
Sex: Male
lorenzo wrote:
Not sure if I continue abing until the end of the week when my husband comes here. Or if I follow Dreamito's advice and reward myself with a good masturbation and a great orgasm just to feel good and sleep well afterwards.

If you are "thinking" about it, there is no urge. There being no urge, I would not do it, as ABing will be more rewarding medium-term than a run-of-the-mill MB.


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Fri Nov 20, 2015 8:13 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
dreamito wrote:
lorenzo wrote:
Not sure if I continue abing until the end of the week when my husband comes here. Or if I follow Dreamito's advice and reward myself with a good masturbation and a great orgasm just to feel good and sleep well afterwards.

If you are "thinking" about it, there is no urge. There being no urge, I would not do it, as ABing will be more rewarding medium-term than a run-of-the-mill MB.



That is why I went to bed without MB, I felt it would be unnecessary this time.
The rest of the week has been busy again and all desire seems to have fallen asleep... :)

Day 12 No Ejaculation
Day 12 No MTO
Day 12 Porn Free
Day 12 No Edging

WD(1) MW(7) SE

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2017: Releases
Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Wed Jan 04, 2017 8:27 pm 
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 11 No Ejaculation
Day 11 No MTO
Day 11 Porn Free
Day 1 No Edging

WD(0) MW(2) SE

New run: After a year of failure -at least in terms of porn use and masturbation- I am back on the band wagon again..

11 days and it feels great. Yesterday was a bit of a hard time.. (no pun intended) but I managed to stop.. My goal is to resist my old habits until they fade.. Hope, writing this diary helps me to get there..

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2017: Releases
Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Wed Jan 04, 2017 10:06 pm 
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Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 16 Jun 2016
Sex: Male
hey
HAPPY NEW YEAR and
good luck for this new streak


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2017 12:27 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 2
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 18 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
welcome back aboard!

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2017 MB=2, WD=21/22, SE=4
...last
WD 10/18
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Fri Jan 06, 2017 6:54 pm 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 13 No Ejaculation
Day 13 No MTO
Day 2 Porn Free
Day 2 No Edging

WD(0) MW(3) SE

@ Charly and Jessie: Thank you both. It is really good to be back.

Had a bit of a struggle two days ago.. Read some erotic posts, got eroused and one thing led to another - watched some porn and edged myself for at least two hours .. Then I managed to stop and since then I have not touched myself.

Today is day 13. Last night I had a strong erection that I even woke up and this morning I woke up with another one.. That had not happened for more than a year..

I am not even really horny to be honest. There is just that basic horniness and the T-buzz, but I don't mind that at all..

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2017: Releases
Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Sat Jan 07, 2017 10:01 pm 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 14 No Ejaculation
Day 14 No MTO
Day 3 Porn Free
Day 3 No Edging

WD(0) MW(3) SE(0)

Uneasy night.. tossed and turned.. could not fall asleep. Too many thoughts, I guess.
Only slept 4.5 hours. When I woke, my husband woke up as well. It's like a connection between us, it's always been like that. Told him about my thoughts and we talked quite a bit.

Since we married, we had less and less sex. During the week, when I am alone, I would rather mb to porn and edge four hours instead of wait for the weekend to have sex with him. Same old story. In the end I was hooked on the idea of returning to an old fetish of mine: of having sex with older daddy-type men. My husband is almost the same age as I, so he was not what I was longing for. Or so I thought.

Told him I wanted to stop MB to porn and about my abing since 12/24 to reboot. He said he d support anything as long as I feel better and more comfortable in my own skin. He was even ok with the fact that when we have sex I don't want my penis or nipples to be touched. He asked me what I wanted for pleasure. I told him and we cuddled. From there on he told me to relax and let him take care of me. We had anal sex and I thought "Oh well, I am so down it can't get any worse, so what have I got to lose" and I let go and gave in.. It was as if I was floating.. He was taking good care of me and suddenly he WAS the daddy I had been longing for so bad. Within minutes I felt the big wave I know so well from Aneros play and was flooded by the most wonderful anal orgasm.. It was like therapy.. I wept while having that orgasm..
Afterwards I was exhausted but calm and balanced.. My husband said I could have that anytime and that he loves me..
That was the first anal sex we had since August. I hope there is so much more to come. When we finished we even joked (Fully exhausted my husband said: And all of that even before I had a cup of coffee.. and we were laughing.)

Btw: We did it sideways and my penis was half erect while we had sex. When my orgasm subsided I realized some good amount of precum had been leaking out of my penis.

Now we have had breakfast together and a beautiful snowy Saturday lies ahead of us..
As Kylie once sang, some 300 years ago: I should be so lucky...

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2017: Releases
Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

Sept 2000-2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993-Aug 2000: unregular MB + WDs

Longest AB run: 105 days


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Sat Jan 07, 2017 10:27 pm 
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Precum Production: Some Precum (2-4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 16 Jun 2016
Sex: Male
hey lorenzo,
that's always good to hear about people connecting back together, :)
that's even better to hear that about married people, i hope things will keep going in a good direction for both of you. :handgestures-thumbup:
that somehow would be sad to get appart because of you fetish , as you're a married man :crying-blue:
good luck for both of you :pray:
:text-bravo:


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 07, 2017 10:32 pm 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 60
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 15 Jan 2017
Sex: Male
Hey Lorenzo,
I was pleased hearing from you mate. Specially during a relationship and specially in the beauty of marriage communication is essential mate. As best as your husband may know ou, he doesn't, or better, he can't read your mind. So, the only way for him to please you 100% is if you tell him what you need, what you feel and what makes you happy. But remember also, its not a one side relationship. Ask him also what he needs. Don't ever be selfish. Ask him what makes him happy, either sexually or whatever else, and you shall see you'll always feel happy and fulfilled and so will him.

Cheers mate

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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2017 2:51 pm 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 7-8 hours
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lorenzo wrote:
Day 13 No Ejaculation
Day 13 No MTO
Day 2 Porn Free
Day 2 No Edging

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@ Charly and Jessie: Thank you both. It is really good to be back.

Had a bit of a struggle two days ago.. Read some erotic posts, got eroused and one thing led to another - watched some porn and edged myself for at least two hours .. Then I managed to stop and since then I have not touched myself.

Today is day 13. Last night I had a strong erection that I even woke up and this morning I woke up with another one.. That had not happened for more than a year..

I am not even really horny to be honest. There is just that basic horniness and the T-buzz, but I don't mind that at all..


Stay strong :handgestures-thumbup:


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 1:38 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 15 No Ejaculation
Day 15 No MTO
Day 4 Porn Free
Day 4 No Edging

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First things first: Thank you so much for your support. Yesterday was quite a special day for me and your responses and apreciation made it even more special. You make me feel welcome in this forum and sharing with you guys my rather personal journey means a lot to me.

@futureWDer: What you say is true. Sexlife in a relationship is not a one way road. Neighter in our case.
My husband also had his share of telling me about his sexual needs, of course. I left them aside in my log as I thought, writing this diary was just about me. But I reckon it doesn't have to be so..

My husband says that he enjoys when we have sex, says it is good sex. But we rarely have some, only about 3-4 times a month. He likes to share his sexual interests with me such as Poppers and having sexual contact with me via Skype when we are apart during the week. Usually I would MB for hours watching porn cut off from the world around me and reject any of his offers when he is away and wants to share his horniness with me, be it on the phone or webcam. So what he does, as a consequence and rather as a substitute: He never edges himself or watches porn, but once a week, he masturbates with some fellow Poppers users on Skype. He has been in "touch" with some of them for years now and together they goon out on poppers for a while. Secretly he wishes me to join him someday. He says, if we had more sex with some anal and poppers and hands and oral and toys .. and if I let myself go and enjoy and show my horniness no matter what, he would not want to cam with others. He definitely prefers me and reality over virtual sex.. For me, it was more and more the other way around.

Long story short: Because of my masturbation habits my libido has suffered quite a bit and not only my mind but especially my body needs to reboot and recover. Therefor, we agreed on the following: I go on with my streak as long as I feel like it. In the meantime he does not touch my penis or nipples when we have sex, but he would like to fuck me whenever I want to. I won't watch porn nor MB so when the weekend comes, I will probably be more than willing to be fucked by him. (Yesterday was quite the revelation for me.) So we will have sex more often and my abing goes on as well. Until I am "healed" and going natural again. After all, the big problem was/ is my porn abuse over the last 16 years. Yesterday, I deleted all pictures and weblinks and videos I had. They were thousands of files. My husband was sitting next to me, sipping his coffee and found it astounding. He asked me if it was hard for me to do it. To be honest, it wasn't. I only kept some Josman comics, they are the hottest thing I know and I did not want to lose them. For the time being that is.

In the afternoon we went to the gym together. I am always amazed what some exercise can do to balance out the mind.

Last night, a good friend of us came to visit and we talked a little about our current situation. Which means I rather asked him about his sexlife. He even answered all of my questions! *lol* He scarcely masturbates and never ever to porn or webcams. He does not like it. Instead every two days or so he makes out with other guys via Grindr. So he has regular releases whenever he is horny but never through edging in front of a machine.. He says, he finds that concept absurd. When he wants sex he wants natural sex, not some poor lonesome substitute.
I never knew that this was possible. Always thought: Everyone masturbates, it is like breathing, eating and sleeping. I was wrong. Our friend is a centered, selfconscious person and seems so in balance with himself. My husband said that is because he has a fulfilled sexlife according to his true needs.

Now, I don't mind my husband having camsex with those other guys, as long as I won't give him what he truely needs for a fulfilled sexlife.
I know he loves me. I see it in his eyes, his smile, his actions. And: He is in love with me. I am a happy man.

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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 7:44 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 16 Jun 2016
Sex: Male
hey lorenzo
:text-goodpost:
I wish you both the best you can get
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 8:44 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 16 No Ejaculation
Day 16 No MTO
Day 5 Porn Free
Day 5 No Edging

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Thank you so much, Charly. That's very kind of you. This time I am certain, I will not MB anymore. Come what may.
You are one of a kind when it comes to consequence and willpower. It took ages for you to have a WD but you did not give up. :clap:

Today was my first day at work after the holidays. I am back in the city where I work, my husband is in the city where we live - 500 kms/ 310 miles away..
Every Friday I travel back home or he comes here where we also have a flat.
I don´t know many people around here, so what I would usually do is simple: go to the gym and PMO every night.
Not tonight. I am not even horny.

I have been to the gym though. But as a result of not enough stretching lately, I hurt a muscle in my left shoulder. So I went to the sauna to warm up a bit and treat that aching muscle. It did sooth the pain, indeed. BUT what happened was this: I am lying on the top "shelf" for about 5 minutes. In comes a guy in his thirties, well trained body, sits down and after a while and some glances in my direction starts to fondle himself.. Not openly but enough to make sure that I notice.
What do you suppose happened now? I got aroused and my penis got erect?
Wrong. Neighter of that. After 2 or 3 minutes I left the sauna and went to the relaxing area and then I went home.
Why is that, you might ask. I thought about it myself on my way back. I could easily say, it is because I am a married man. :liar: No. I am not a saint..
No, perhaps all that porn throughout the years, mostly xtube amateurs and cam4, has made my brain insensitive to sexual attractions as to what that guy was doing in the sauna. Wouldn't it be natural for a gay guy to get aroused by this? After all, that guy was not ugly. Not at all.
Well, if the proof is in the pudding, by now I can be sure that my brain and my erectile tissue both have to recover..

A small step in this direction happened this morning - I woke up with MW again - great feeling, have not had that in years this often. :greetings-clappingyellow:

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June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Tue Jan 10, 2017 10:40 am 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - Had a wet dream, but never woke up to see the time.
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 21 Nov 2015
Sex: Male
Hello,

I just started following your log, but I think what you're doing is incredible. You've had the strength to be honest with yourself about your habits, and you're making a concerted effort to change your habits. Wonderfully inspiring, and I wish you the best of luck this year!

Happy 2017!


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PostPosted: Wed Jan 11, 2017 8:45 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 17 No Ejaculation
Day 17 No MTO
Day 6 Porn Free
Day 6 No Edging

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@LewisCarroll: Thank you, that's very kind of you. Yes, I hope I will be going very far with this and that it goes on for a long time from now on..
Nice nickname, btw. ;)

Today has been rather unspectacular. I was working the whole day and still had a bit of an ache in my left shoulder due to yesterday's training.
I had a nice long phonecall from my husband which ended in some erotic stories I told him, how I had my first ejaculation, how intense sexual sensations where for me in my youth etc. We have never had that kind of conversation before, so something (or someone, really) might just have loosen up a bit since last Saturday.. But I did not get aroused at all. My hubby did. :cool:
I am miles away from feeling any sexual attraction, I reckon.. And WE are fine with it.
At this moment, I cannot imagine how it feels to get aroused and erect all of a sudden without any prewarning.. And to be even forced to fight the horniness. But I better be careful with what I wish for.. :lol:

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June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Wed Jan 11, 2017 7:49 pm 
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Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 16 Jun 2016
Sex: Male
hey lorenzo
i've seen you passed by the chatroom yesterday, maybe some we will have the chance to chat there
i catch this opportunity to ask you questions (of course you don't have to answer)
one of your post
viewtopic.php?f=8&t=5225&p=83299#p83299
did catch my attention in 2015 before i was a member
Is that the story you told about to your husband yesterday ?
Since they i wondering why is your feeling now about this episode of your life, i how did your feelings evolve thus time about that too?
i'm wondering because the last lines of the post, i also wonder if this did somehow influenced your sex life ? (i mean sex life, not sex orientation)

P.S. i will answer in my journal to the post you did there,


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Fri Jan 13, 2017 4:17 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Day 19 No Ejaculation
Day 19 No MTO
Day 8 Porn Free
Day 8 No Edging

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This week has been rather busy with work and going to the gym. I haven`t got time to lurk around neither in the morning nor at night. That´s good.
I am not particularly horny nor do I get boners throughout the day.
At night that's a different story. For the last two nights I have had some erotic dreams (which I may explain later) and some strong erections which kept me half awake for a while. I rather enjoyed them..

@charly: Thank you for your nice post. The post you refer to is indeed the story I told my husband about two days ago. We were talking about some intense experiences in terms of sexual excitement. In my nostalgic memory I can for instance still recall one situation - I must have been 12 - when I was touching my balls by coincidence watching "Peter Pan" and the sensation was so overwhelming, I simply HAD! to leave the room to sneak into my bed and pleasure myself.. not real stroking of course, didn`t know how to do it by then.. Now I am miles away from such an intense excitement. That is one reason for me to start this new streak..
And the excitement of my first ejaculation was another such experience. So I told him about it.

Charlythemoose wrote:
"Since they i wondering why is your feeling now about this episode of your life, i how did your feelings evolve thus time about that too?
i'm wondering because the last lines of the post, i also wonder if this did somehow influenced your sex life ? (i mean sex life, not sex orientation) "

How I feel about it now? It took me years to get used to the fact that it really happened. I was 13 after all. Today, the fact THAT it happened and that it was such an intense and fascinating experience (in a negative sense) today has become dear to me and I cherish the memory of it as something special. Because special it was.
From an adult point of view it was not special at all. Two men are masturbating each other in a toilet stall until one reaches orgasm and leaves.
But I wasn't a man. I was 13. What stuck with me were that man's bewildered eyes as he was trying to see me cumming while I was trying to hide it from him because I felt so embarrassed.
Did it influence my later sex life? I always thought so.
My husband, on the other hand, is convinced that this only made it difficult for me to loosen up while having sex. He his convinced that the reason why I did not run away from that toilet stall that particular day and the reason why I like to have sex with daddy-type men are exactly the same: I was and I am still looking for the dad I never had. One who loves me and protects me. One who cares and who is present. Perhaps he is right.

I have to confess something else: Last week when we had our long talk, he said that if I ever meet THAT daddy-type man and he wants to have sex with me, I should feel free to do it. The probability of meeting your fantasies in real life is so small that I should definitely do it then, he said. Strange, isn't it?

Confession #2 and not less strange: Last night I chatted a while with some of you guys. Then I went to sleep. I dreamed that I watched Charlythemoose having an orgasm and ejaculating a LOT... :oops: even though Charly did not want to. He just couldn't help it, it just happened and he enjoyed it. I woke up with said erection, tossed and turned and finally fell asleep again..
Sorry, Charly.. :?

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Jan-May: MB 14 / Sex 3
June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Fri Jan 13, 2017 6:24 am 
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Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 16 Jun 2016
Sex: Male
hey lorenzo
thanks for your answers.
I will probabely read it few time to be sure i catch everything right and fully :think:
As i usualy do I'm sure i will "process that for i while", Maybe I will come back with more questions
Some might be for me understanding and curiousity :oops: other my be for you to think about :?:
one of the first things that came into my mind were :
"I was and I am still looking for the dad I never had. One who loves me and protects me. One who cares and who is present"
first i guees you mean literaly, So i'm sorry you never had a dad to be there for you.
if you change "dad" for "one" it sound like a description of the loved one, the one you do decide to spend your live with ?
I guess you've chosen your lover for some reasons ? and you did confirmed your choice when you got married ?
the other thing is i can understand you might be looking for a "father figure",
I can understand (not fully of course) that most of the people are looking for a missing parent (dad or mom -not literaly ) but who would want to
have sex with mom or dad?
that made me thinks: maybe you're chasing a chimera ? a mix between two figures ?
Can we catch chimera ?


Last thing about confession #2
No worries i'm ok with that... at i had an happy orgasm there :D


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 13, 2017 6:51 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
"the other thing is i can understand you might be looking for a "father figure",
I can understand (not fully of course) that most of the people are looking for a missing parent (dad or mom -not literaly ) but who would want to
have sex with mom or dad?
that made me thinks: maybe you're chasing a chimera ? a mix between two figures ? "

- I am sure it is the father figure, I am after.. To be able to let go and cuddle up with / or have sex with who KNOWS, who wraps your arm around you and you feel protected.. someone with life experience who has lived before you were born, who can talk about for instance the past and you could listen for hours.. and who of course wants you to enjoy it when it comes to sex..
and: I like the physique of a man 45-60... little hairy, little belly perhaps, manly and natural, like the neighbour who lives next door.. I do not like the artificial additions so many (gay) guys add to their bodies nowadays (tattoos, piercings, total shave, extreme undercut hair, artsy fartsy beards..) or guys in their 40s who still dress like a 12 year old with their trainers, graphic tees and spray on jeans.. But to each his own..

I am not in need to find someone to love.. I am happy to have already found him.. He is my soulmate, my counterpart, we were made from the same piece of wood.. and we can have very good sex. :happy-bouncygreen:


"No worries i'm ok with that... at i had an happy orgasm there"

- You absolutely did! :happy-partydance:

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June: MB 0
July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
Sep: MB 6? / Sex 1
Oct: MB 3 / Sex 0

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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Fri Jan 13, 2017 11:50 pm 
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Sex: Male
hi, lorenzo
here is my thought :
"I have to confess something else: Last week when we had our long talk, he said that if I ever meet THAT daddy-type man and he wants to have sex with me, I should feel free to do it. The probability of meeting your fantasies in real life is so small that I should definitely do it then, he said. Strange, isn't it?" :angelic-cyan:
waooo....
:crying-blue:
just think twice about the true value of that sentence
because saying "Strange, isn't it?" make me think you might under estimate from far the treasure he has put into your hands
here is my piece advice
just take time to think about what he said to you
i took me yearss before understanding what was the point of having "a silent minute" for important historical event or at funerals
i'm sure your old enough for that: So take few minutes just sit somewhere in the silence, with no distraction :shhh:
and just let what he said flow trough you mind :?:
Are you sure he's asking you to do so ? or is he asking you to go through ?

I also think it's time for me to step back and take a break from this issue
because i'm sure i've already started to try to do some "cheap psychoanalysis"
Don't worry if i'm just doing more casual and less deep talk :confusion-shrug:
Maybe later some day ....
both of you take care :romance-grouphug:


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 Post subject: Re: Lorenzo's Log
PostPosted: Sat Jan 14, 2017 12:55 am 
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Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 12 Oct 2017
Sex: Male
Don't worry. I had already guessed myself where he was coming from even before you said it. I would never do that. I am abing to get my healthy "appetite" back and I most certainly will not waste it on a ONS and hurt my husband. This is not "Indecent Proposal" with Robert Redford. :lol:

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July: MB 0
Aug: MB 1 / HF 3 / Sex 4
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