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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Mon Jan 16, 2017 9:30 am 
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Day 95

Thanks Lorenzo. I'm feeling really good about the way things are going. It seems easier not to have a goal or end point for planned MB. If I'm never going to MB again, what's another day, week or month?? Just one day at a time, and enjoy the ride.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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Day 97

This seems too easy at times. I must have adapted to being horny and full all the time, because although it's there, it feels good and doesn't make me want to MB. Morning wood (sometimes morning steel) continues to be a regular occurrence. Sometimes I wonder how long can a guy go without any release at all? Or does my body ever need a complete release? I have low expectations for a WD, but SE might be more likely.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Thu Jan 19, 2017 1:12 am 
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Day 98

Had a vigorous workout at the gym this morning. Right now I'm feeling more horny than usual, and notice the fullness. But it's all good and I have no intention of masturbating. Just go with whatever happens, or doesn't happen.

I feel empowered that I am approaching 100 days without MB (or any release). Considering that up until Oct 13 I was jerking off every day, being able to stop gives me a sense of self control and discipline. I will stay strong and not revert to my old addiction. It seems to be working because I no longer want to MB. An orgasm and ejaculation would feel so good, but MB is not an option.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Fri Jan 20, 2017 2:46 am 
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Slider wrote:
It seems to be working because I no longer want to MB. An orgasm and ejaculation would feel so good, but MB is not an option.
I think 'going natural' leads to manual stimulation becoming simultaneously both excessive and unappealing. MB would be over with too quickly without a lot of full body involvement, followed by a disappointing letdown. Better to stay natural, armed, and ready. And at some point hopefully have an intense, long lasting, full body orgasm in a WD while simultaneously retaining all the horniness and good AB feelings afterwards.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 12:37 am 
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Day 100

Well put, Texanguy. Now if my body will just cooperate and give me a WD or SE. My addiction free (actually recovery) life is so much better than the old daily MB way. I think many men who MB every day think they live a very "sexual" life, but it's really only a few minutes of sexual activity, followed by 23 hrs 55 minutes of sexless feelings. The way things are for me at this time is that I feel sexually charged almost all the time. It doesn't reach a peak (orgasm) but it's always there. The longer I go natural, the smoother the course seems. and the more I like the new life I have started. I like having my body work the way it is supposed to. If I physically need to ejaculate, it will happen without self stimulation. If not, it won't. Either way I'm OK with the result.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2017 7:21 am 
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Slider wrote:
I think many men who MB every day think they live a very "sexual" life, but it's really only a few minutes of sexual activity, followed by 23 hrs 55 minutes of sexless feelings. The way things are for me at this time is that I feel sexually charged almost all the time.
I think 'sexually charged' is the natural way we are meant to feel and be. Simple logic seems to be leading me more and more to conclude that MB is simply too disruptive to this natural norm for it to be very healthy, especially long term.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Wed Jan 25, 2017 12:53 am 
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Day 104
WD 0
SE 0
Orgasms 0
Ejaculations 0
Edging 0
Morning wood - every day

Some men feel absolutely no sexual feelings after long term AB, while others have such strong urges that they can't continue, and resume old MB habits. I have been fortunate to be in the middle of the spectrum. There is always underlying sexual tension, but there have not been urges to MB. Going forward, this is the way I hope things will continue to be. Not only can I live this way, but I enjoy the way it feels.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2017 12:27 am 
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Day 106

Last night I was more horny than usual. No urge to MB, but I was thinking about how good it would feel to cum. Things settled down, and I was able to sleep well the rest of the night. This morning I have my usual level of horniness, and all is good.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Fri Jan 27, 2017 1:42 am 
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Slider wrote:
Last night I was more horny than usual. No urge to MB, but I was thinking about how good it would feel to cum.
Hopefully, your evolving separation of horniness and wanting to cum from a desire to MB will result in your brain deciding to go ahead and have incredible sex in WDs while being totally turned off by MB. You're not too old for that to happen, and might try visualizing it. At some point, you should also be able to sleep nude without risk of slipping up. It has been known to help stimulate WDs.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2017 12:09 am 
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Day 110 ---- No release of any kind yet.

I am continuing to enjoy the feeling of going natural. Thinking back to my last MB, I remember that on day 4 after MB, I was so horny that I almost failed... but here I am on day 110. This just proves that even extreme horniness will go away without masturbating.

What seems to make things easier now is that I'm not on a "streak" or "run". I just don't masturbate any more. There's no future goal for a long run. This is my new permanent way of living. What could possibly be different about day 110 and some other near or far future date?


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2017 3:09 am 
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Day 110 ---- No release of any kind yet.

I am continuing to enjoy the feeling of going natural. Thinking back to my last MB, I remember that on day 4 after MB, I was so horny that I almost failed... but here I am on day 110. This just proves that even extreme horniness will go away without masturbating.

What seems to make things easier now is that I'm not on a "streak" or "run". I just don't masturbate any more. There's no future goal for a long run. This is my new permanent way of living. What could possibly be different about day 110 and some other near or far future date?

I appreciate your determination to hit 110 days!!I can't imagine how would I be to ab for such long day like you.

Congrats,Slider!


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2017 6:29 pm 
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You beat my record of 101. And you are at the point I was at then, I think -- on certain days, by that point, I was not horny at all (though woke up hard each day). It is easier to deal with AB after some point -- your body just becomes used to it.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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Slider wrote:
Day 110 ---- No release of any kind yet.

I am continuing to enjoy the feeling of going natural. Thinking back to my last MB, I remember that on day 4 after MB, I was so horny that I almost failed... but here I am on day 110. This just proves that even extreme horniness will go away without masturbating.

What seems to make things easier now is that I'm not on a "streak" or "run". I just don't masturbate any more. There's no future goal for a long run. This is my new permanent way of living. What could possibly be different about day 110 and some other near or far future date?

That's exactly the correct frame of mind.

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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Thu Feb 02, 2017 12:12 am 
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Thanks guys, for the comments and encouragement.

Day 111

Last night after I turned out the light, I felt extremely horny. Then I did something I shouldn't have done. I took off my shirt and did about 10 minutes of nipple play. It felt soooo good, and I wanted to cum. But I focused on what I'm accomplishing: I don't MB any more. Not today, not tomorrow, not ever.

By this morning I had the usual morning wood, but the feelings of last night had subsided. That little MB devil in my head had been trying to get out and get what he wanted... but I didn't let him.

I am so ready for a WD or SE.


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I am so ready for a WD or SE.
Yep, an SE or WD will leave you feeling positive and excited, nothing at all like the short circuit of MB followed by a big letdown. Nothing wrong with realizing that MB can't give you what you want, and in fact would only prevent you from getting it.

Do you always wear a shirt to bed? If so, perhaps AB can allow you to feel comfortable enough with your body to enjoy sleeping shirtless.


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Day 113

So it's been over 16 weeks since I had an ejaculation or release of any kind. My new life of going natural has many pros and a few cons:

Pros - Increased sexual awareness, without the peaks and valleys of MB cycles.
- Sense of self control and not short circuiting my sexuality.
- More energy, less procrastination.
- Feeling good about myself in overcoming an addiction.
- Stopping what I should have stopped when I was 15 or 16 years old.
- Not wasting time MB, or having anxiety about it if I can't, due to lack of privacy.
- Not having episodes of my dick being very sore due to over-MB.
- Not having to clean up the mess after MB.
Cons - Overcoming an addiction is hard, but it can be done.
- Some concern about the health of my prostate without frequent emptying.
- Not having an orgasm for such a long time.
On balance the pros outweigh the cons.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 07, 2017 12:06 am 
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16 weeks + 4 days

I continue to have morning wood every day, but have noticed that during the day many hours can pass without thinking about being horny. Following my episode of nipple play several days ago, I tried it again and was surprised to notice that stimulation did not make me feel more horny or aroused. It felt good, but more like a massage would feel good.

With each passing day I'm becoming more comfortable with the "new me". It feels good.

Today I'm a little tired from staying up to watch the amazing second half of the Super Bowl. Congtrats to the Patriots!!


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Day 119

I'm still experimenting with placing my penis in different positions in my briefs. Somehow being constantly aware of how it's positioned diverts attention from being horny. Each position has it's own interesting feel. Straight up has the best feel, but when flaccid, it tends to drift downward or to the side. When directly down (but not pushed far down) there is almost no feeling or sensation. Pushing it downward with the tip bent up gives a slightly uncomfortable, but strangely erotic feel. Focusing on this lets me feel something without wanting to MB.


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It's been 17 weeks since I MB'd or had a release.

I'm beginning to think I might not get a WD. An SE would be a pleasant surprise. But even if there is no release in sight, I'm OK with the way things are... horny, full and liking the way things are. Two days ago I had an aching in my groin on both sides. This was probably full tanks backing up into the vas, but now the ache has subsided.


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So happy you sticking to it. Great week count there! Hope when it does blow, it is worth the anticipation. I'm sure it will.

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Day 119

I'm still experimenting with placing my penis in different positions in my briefs. Somehow being constantly aware of how it's positioned diverts attention from being horny. Each position has it's own interesting feel. Straight up has the best feel, but when flaccid, it tends to drift downward or to the side. When directly down (but not pushed far down) there is almost no feeling or sensation. Pushing it downward with the tip bent up gives a slightly uncomfortable, but strangely erotic feel. Focusing on this lets me feel something without wanting to MB.


Could I ask if you have considered sleeping naked? I wonder if a shift like that might make a WD more likely.


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Day 121

Thanks for the comments, guys.
As for sleeping naked, I've tried it a few times, and the temptation to rub against the sheets is too tempting. I'm almost certain I would at least edge, and probably finish it off.

Today I had an intense upper body workout at the gym. Now I feel pumped and horny.

Lately I've found that showering doesn't "set the mood" for masturbating like it used to. The shower was my MB chamber. Even stroking 2 or 3 times to wash my little guy doesn't feel like anything but washing. Some days I don't even think about the fact that I used to MB every day in the shower.


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Day 121

Thanks for the comments, guys.
As for sleeping naked, I've tried it a few times, and the temptation to rub against the sheets is too tempting. I'm almost certain I would at least edge, and probably finish it off.

Today I had an intense upper body workout at the gym. Now I feel pumped and horny.

Lately I've found that showering doesn't "set the mood" for masturbating like it used to. The shower was my MB chamber. Even stroking 2 or 3 times to wash my little guy doesn't feel like anything but washing. Some days I don't even think about the fact that I used to MB every day in the shower.


Perfect. Sounds like you've disassociated the shower from MB. I've done the same. It is a relief to be able to shower risk-free.

On the topic of sleepware, loose or tight?

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2017 MB=2, WD=11, SE=3
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WD 6/11
SE 1/9
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Mon Feb 13, 2017 3:38 am 
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Slider wrote:
As for sleeping naked, I've tried it a few times, and the temptation to rub against the sheets is too tempting. I'm almost certain I would at least edge, and probably finish it off.

Lately I've found that showering doesn't "set the mood" for masturbating like it used to. The shower was my MB chamber. Even stroking 2 or 3 times to wash my little guy doesn't feel like anything but washing. Some days I don't even think about the fact that I used to MB every day in the shower.
At some point, the same lack of temptation you now have while showering will allow you to sleep naked without fear of slipping up.

It's also not unusual to start getting WDs unexpectedly many months after starting AB.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Mon Feb 13, 2017 11:44 pm 
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Day 124

Thanks for the comments, guys. As for sleepwear, I wear a T-shirt and snug briefs, with my penis aimed straight up to allow for erections.

I'm not sure whether I'm just not as horny as before, or maybe the level of horniness has become a normal feeling. The same goes for pelvic fullness. Regardless of the cause, the way things feel now would best described as often erotic, but without the urge to eliminate the feeling (i.e. by MB). Any thoughts of MB are quickly followed by the thought that "I don't MB any more... period." I'm not allowing myself to think that if I can make it to day XXX I deserve to have a release by MB. It's not gonna happen.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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Day 126

I am beginning to feel like I have complete control over my body. My past alcohol addiction has been in recovery for years, and now my MB addiction is well on its way to long term recovery. It's good not to have any urges to do unwanted behavior. As for MB, at this time I feel like I could do it every day, occasionally, or never... it really doesn't matter. The never approach seems to be working well. Not being controlled by any addiction makes me feel strong of body and will.


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Slider wrote:
Day 126

I am beginning to feel like I have complete control over my body. My past alcohol addiction has been in recovery for years, and now my MB addiction is well on its way to long term recovery. It's good not to have any urges to do unwanted behavior. As for MB, at this time I feel like I could do it every day, occasionally, or never... it really doesn't matter. The never approach seems to be working well. Not being controlled by any addiction makes me feel strong of body and will.


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SE 1/9
MB 2/22
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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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Slider wrote:
Day 124

Thanks for the comments, guys. As for sleepwear, I wear a T-shirt and snug briefs, with my penis aimed straight up to allow for erections.

I'm not sure whether I'm just not as horny as before, or maybe the level of horniness has become a normal feeling. The same goes for pelvic fullness. Regardless of the cause, the way things feel now would best described as often erotic, but without the urge to eliminate the feeling (i.e. by MB). Any thoughts of MB are quickly followed by the thought that "I don't MB any more... period." I'm not allowing myself to think that if I can make it to day XXX I deserve to have a release by MB. It's not gonna happen.


Really good job!


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Thu Feb 16, 2017 11:31 pm 
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Thanks, guys, for the encouragement.

It's been 18 weeks today since my last MB / orgasm / ejaculation. And I feel better each day about my decision not to MB any more. As with recovery from any addiction, overconfidence should be avoided... one day at a time.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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Day 132

I almost had a WD several nights ago. The dream was not a very good one. It involved MB, and just as I felt like I was going to cum, I decided in my dream to stop. At that point I woke up... nothing.

Lately I've been more horny than usual, possibly due to taking a tapering course of Prednisone to help treat chronic sinus congestion. The Prednisone really amps me up and makes me horny. The first day of the Prednisone was 3 days ago, and involved taking 60mg (6 tabs) in one day, then decreasing by one tab each day until the dose is only one tab. The last day will be in two more days.


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