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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Dec 06, 2016 12:09 am 
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Day 54

Nothing so far... Last orgasm / ejaculation was Oct 13.
Today I'm very horny and full. I feel like a few strokes and I would cum, but I'm going to hold on, not do it, and wait for the intensity to pass.

So why is AB so easy some days, and so difficult others??


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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Day 55

This morning I feel back to normal, without the urges of yesterday. Still horny, but I'm OK with it.

In a previous post I discussed placing my little guy in different positions in my briefs. Doing this gives me a better sense of awareness of what's there. Somehow it helps control urges by diverting my attention to a different pleasure. Yesterday I aimed him straight across to the right. Today I think I'll do the same on the left. Sometimes when I aim it straight up, I fold the tip forward. Of course bending doesn't work if I have a boner. None of this would work unless I wear snugly fitting briefs.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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New guy here. Im also on a quest of a WD, but so far no success. I completed a 90 day reboot recently and figured a WD would be part of the process. I'd have good dreams but something in a part of my brain shuts it off when the release is supposed to happen. It's frustrating as hell! Maybe on some level I'm afraid of wetting or ruining my bed. Anyway thanks for sharing your experience so far.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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Day 56

Thanks tbird for the comments.

Extremely horny today. I feel like I took a mood altering drug, and now have a physical and mental euphoria. I've become accustomed to being horny, and when the level increases I find it pleasurable. But "relief" is not going to happen, because I'm not going to MB any more.

I'm becoming more comfortable with the idea that I'll never MB again. No need for a lock on the bathroom door, or embarrassment if someone should come and see me jerking off in the shower. I'm done. Now I can go camping with others in tight quarters with no privacy and not have to agonize over how and where I can jerk off. It's liberating to be in recovery from an addiction.

I know this sounds very optimistic, but I have to be positive about recovery or it won't happen.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Thu Dec 08, 2016 1:20 am 
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MB becomes less and less interesting when you know it reduces total pleasure and that you'd regret it if you did it.

At some point, it just seems natural to move beyond endless MB-letdown cycles.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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Day 57 8 weeks completed

Episodes of horniness are increasing in frequency. I am very determined not to give in during a weak moment. Ejaculation is not necessary, so I can certainly do without it. I'm also having more brief (2-3 seconds) feelings like I am about to cum, but then it quickly goes away.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Fri Dec 09, 2016 2:36 am 
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Keep it going , stay focused.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 12:14 am 
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Day 58

Thanks for the encouragement, tbird.

I went to the gym this morning and didn't even think about AB. But when I returned home, suddenly I am uber horny. Thoughts of cumming are creeping into my mind. Stop! No matter how intense the desire is, I'm not going to MB... period. I see recovery as a long term endeavor. There will be difficult moments or days, but I just keep telling myself, "I have permanently stopped masturbating." I know I can do this, so there is no point thinking about possibly MBing. It's not going to happen.

In past "AB runs" I've gone a certain number of days, then given up. This time I'm not going for a run of any length. This is my new way of life. The days are being counted as motivation. If I can go natural for 58 days, I can certainly do it for 59, 60, etc.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2016 12:54 am 
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You still seem to think of MB as a 'forbidden fruit' even while you enjoy the effects of AB.

But wouldn't you eventually lose interest in taking a bite of 'forbidden fruit' if you knew that it wouldn't really taste that good and that as soon as you swallowed it that it would make you feel a bit sick, disappointed, and a have loss of energy and enthusiasm for days afterward? Plus, you knew that it's not really a 'natural' food after all, and you knew that you feel better when you don't eat it for extended periods of time?


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2016 12:28 am 
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Day 61

Good points, Texanguy.

Rather than focusing on MB, orgasm and ejaculation denial, I'm enjoying something different. I am replacing the pleasure of orgasm with the "good" feeling of having my cock in different positions in my briefs. Pointing straight up has a different feel than to the left or right. Slightly down and center gives me no feel at all. Sometimes I try to position it so that it's somewhat uncomfortable, but strangely pleasurable, which makes me very aware of what's there. Other positions are straight down with a bend upward at mid-shaft (flaccid of course). Or the reverse, straight up with the mid-shaft bend downward. I've tried the same thing left and right. I now always sleep with it straight up, which sometimes leads to extended periods of full erection. For any of this to work the briefs need to be snug and low cut.

For the last few days I have had a pleasant equilibrium, without urges.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2016 11:42 pm 
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Day 62

Nothing new. Feeling great. Had an intense workout this morning.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Fri Dec 16, 2016 12:07 am 
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Day 64 - - 9 completed weeks

I'm beginning to feel good about being able to go natural for a long time. So far no release of any kind, but that's OK. It seems normal now to be horny and full, but not have any desire to MB. It would feel good to cum, but I'll just wait and see how going natural plays out.

There will be days ahead with strong urges, but I am ready to accept this as part of not masturbating. I feel better about my plan to never MB than I did with specific goals such as a 90 day reboot. The 'number of days' goal implies that when the goal is reached, it's OK to relapse.

An analogy would be "I want to lose 20 lbs" vs "I will permanently change my eating habits".


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Fri Dec 16, 2016 3:42 am 
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Slider wrote:
Day 57 8 weeks completed

Episodes of horniness are increasing in frequency. I am very determined not to give in during a weak moment. Ejaculation is not necessary, so I can certainly do without it. I'm also having more brief (2-3 seconds) feelings like I am about to cum, but then it quickly goes away.

When you have those feelings, you just need to learn to let go. Focus on dragging out that feeling and see what happens.

This is the same feeling you'll have when you are sleeping and if you body reacts by shutting down that feeling, you'll have much more trouble getting the WD.

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2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2016 12:04 am 
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Thanks for the advice, jessieboy.

Day 65

I wore my little guy straight up all morning yesterday, which gave me a sense of awareness the entire time. Right now it's pointed directly to the right. All the positions except straight down give me a continuous feeling that I'm not 'dick dead'.

I've been tempted to do a little nipple play. They would be extremely sensitive since I haven't lightly touched them in over 2 months. But I'm afraid this would lead to other things, and I don't want to go there. Overall my skin seems more sensitive than usual, especially on my chest and upper arms. Sometimes I feel like a teenager re-exploring my body and how it works.

Computer privacy will be limited from tomorrow until Jan 3. Will post when I can.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 21, 2016 8:01 am 
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Day 69

Still enjoying the ride, although constantly horny and full. Morning wood every day. I'm determined to make this my new way of life, one day at a time.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 27, 2016 6:51 am 
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Day 75

No release of any kind.

Still in a good equilibrium. No need to MB. No desire to MB. I will not MB. Going natural feels too good to short circuit with MB.


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hey buddy
congrats on your journey, cool to see your progress.
cheers mate

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 29, 2016 12:47 am 
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Thanks, FutureWDmer, for the encouragement.

Day 77

Nothing new to report. Although it would feel amazing to cum, I have no desire to MB in order to make it happen. If I get a WD or SE that would be great, but if not, it doesn't matter. Being horny and full feels good, also.


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Day 83
So far no release since I started going natural on Oct 13.

The last few days I've been horny in the morning. Also, morning wood has been present, sometimes for more than an hour. The periodic waves of horniness and boners rises and falls in cycles. I'm becoming accustomed to the fact that I don't MB any more, and don't want to ever do it again. I know forever is a long time, but hey, if I can go 83 days, certainly I can go longer. So far I've experiences the full range of being horny, full, having urges, wanting to cum, etc. and have tried to enjoy all these feeling, while not doing anything to eliminate them.

The real test will come about Jan 13 or 14 when I pass my previous record. At that point I need to stop thinking about "records" and just enjoy my new lifestyle. No more "AB runs", just going natural a day at a time.

One more comment: Something that has helped me tremendously was changing from Hanes briefs to Tommy Hilfiger low rise hip briefs. With these briefs I can position my guy any way I want and it pretty much stays there all day. Some of the positions are uncomfortable at first, but then become strangely pleasurable later. There is a sense of increased sexual awareness without MB, edging,or orgasm. As I have mentioned previously, the briefs are very snug (size small 28-30.. my waist is 34").


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Slider wrote:
Day 83
So far no release since I started going natural on Oct 13.

The last few days I've been horny in the morning. Also, morning wood has been present, sometimes for more than an hour. The periodic waves of horniness and boners rises and falls in cycles. I'm becoming accustomed to the fact that I don't MB any more, and don't want to ever do it again. I know forever is a long time, but hey, if I can go 83 days, certainly I can go longer. So far I've experiences the full range of being horny, full, having urges, wanting to cum, etc. and have tried to enjoy all these feeling, while not doing anything to eliminate them.

The real test will come about Jan 13 or 14 when I pass my previous record. At that point I need to stop thinking about "records" and just enjoy my new lifestyle. No more "AB runs", just going natural a day at a time.

One more comment: Something that has helped me tremendously was changing from Hanes briefs to Tommy Hilfiger low rise hip briefs. With these briefs I can position my guy any way I want and it pretty much stays there all day. Some of the positions are uncomfortable at first, but then become strangely pleasurable later. There is a sense of increased sexual awareness without MB, edging,or orgasm. As I have mentioned previously, the briefs are very snug (size small 28-30.. my waist is 34").

Good milestone!

You are right also, good underwear will help. I always have problems with sizes. And considering I buy in packs of 3-4, you are committed. I'm a 32" waist and wear Adidas M (32-34) as I find S (30-32) a bit snug, In another brand a medium feels like I'm swimming in them.

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MB 2/22
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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
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Day 84

I'm still very horny and wanting a release. Twelve weeks without release seems so long. But if I can go 12 weeks, probably 11 of those with a full load, I can certainly go much longer. Yesterday I had another feeling that I was going to cum. It lasted about a minute, then subsided. It takes time and strength to adjust to constantly being full and horny, but I'm doing it and will continue to go natural. No records. No long runs. Just a new way of life.


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Slider wrote:
Day 84

I'm still very horny and wanting a release. Twelve weeks without release seems so long. But if I can go 12 weeks, probably 11 of those with a full load, I can certainly go much longer. Yesterday I had another feeling that I was going to cum. It lasted about a minute, then subsided. It takes time and strength to adjust to constantly being full and horny, but I'm doing it and will continue to go natural. No records. No long runs. Just a new way of life.


Hang in there! I know that feeling where you are certain you are about to blow, randomly. Got it twice yesterday and was literally saying to myself "oh, please not now, not like this" lol Probably set myself back by saying that because your unconsciousness follows your consciousness. If I was presented the same feeling in a dream, I'd restrict myself. That's one of my beliefs -- if you are constantly telling your body NO while you are awake, your body will follow the same when you are asleep. My last WD, I recall in my dream being asked permission to release. If I had said no, I would have probably had not had the WD. Instead I accepted it and was swallowed by that feeling.

I can't imagine going around 11 of those past weeks with "one loaded in the chamber". I've been going around about half a week with that feeling, and I'm going mad. :confusion-helpsign:

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2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 06, 2017 11:54 pm 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 1
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Thanks for the comments, jessieboy.

Day 86

Seven more days to pass my "record". I am anxious to get past that point because that's where I failed twice in the past. My attitude is that this is my new way of life, so the number of days or weeks doesn't really matter... it's just the way things are. Once I'm past day 93, I can stop thinking about trying to reach a goal. The goal is not a reachable one, but rather a lifestyle change that leaves things alone, and accepts what happens or doesn't happen. In other words, no MB ever, because that phase of my life is over.

If any members here have permanently stopped MB, I'd like to hear about it. Do you get WDs or have any release outlet? Is it possible to stop MB and never have a release??


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Jan 07, 2017 2:07 am 
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Slider wrote:
Thanks for the comments, jessieboy.

Day 86

Seven more days to pass my "record". I am anxious to get past that point because that's where I failed twice in the past. My attitude is that this is my new way of life, so the number of days or weeks doesn't really matter... it's just the way things are. Once I'm past day 93, I can stop thinking about trying to reach a goal. The goal is not a reachable one, but rather a lifestyle change that leaves things alone, and accepts what happens or doesn't happen. In other words, no MB ever, because that phase of my life is over.

If any members here have permanently stopped MB, I'd like to hear about it. Do you get WDs or have any release outlet? Is it possible to stop MB and never have a release??


I did the streak thing before where I didn't MB for > 2 months and I had at least one SE each of those months. As you reduce MB, there does seem to be a steady increase in number of SE/WD. In short, I don't think it is possible, long term, to not have a regular release schedule of at least 2 times a month. It does take time for your body to re-adapt after going cold-turkey on MB.

Here's my log:

2008 Log:
Oct 2008 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=0
Nov 2008 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=0

2010 Log:
May 2010 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=1
Jun 2010 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=0
Jul 2010 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=0
Aug 2010 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=0
Sep 2010 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=1
Oct 2010 - MB=0 WD=0 SE=1
Nov 2010 - MB=0 WD=0 SE=1
Dec 2010 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=1

2011 Log:
Jan 2011 - MB=0 WD=0 SE=0
Feb 2011 - MB=9 WD=0 SE=1
Mar 2011 - MB=5 WD=0 SE=2
Apr 2011 - MB=4 WD=1 SE=1
May 2011 - MB=2 WD=2 SE=0
Jun 2011 - MB=4 WD=0 SE=2
Jul 2011 - MB=4 WD=1 SE=0
Aug 2011 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=2
Sep 2011 - MB=4 WD=0 SE=2
Oct 2011 - MB=1 WD=1 SE=2
Nov 2011 - MB=2 WD=1 SE=1
Dec 2011 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=1

2012:
Jan 2012 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=1
Feb 2012 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=0
Mar 2012 - MB=0 WD=0 SE=2
Apr 2012 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=1
May 2012 - MB=4 WD=1 SE=0
Jun 2012 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=2
Jul 2012 - MB=3 WD=1 SE=0
Aug 2012 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=1
Sep 2012 - MB=3 WD=1 SE=0
Oct 2012 - MB=4 WD=0 SE=0
Nov 2012 - MB=4 WD=1 SE=0
Dec 2012 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=2


2013:
Jan 2013 - MB=4 WD=0 SE=2
Feb 2013 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=0
Mar 2013 - MB=3 WD=1 SE=2
Apr 2013 - MB=0 WD=0 SE=2
May 2013 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=2
Jun 2013 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=2
Jul 2013 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=2
Aug 2013 - MB=1 WD=1 SE=2
Sep 2013 - MB=4 WD=1 SE=2
Oct 2013 - MB=4 WD=0 SE=0
Nov 2013 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=0
Dec 2013 - MB=3 WD=1 SE=1

2014:
Jan 2014 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=0
Feb 2014 - MB=2 WD=1 SE=1
Mar 2014 - MB=3 WD=1 SE=2
Apr 2014 - MB=6 WD=1 SE=0
May 2014 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=2
Jun 2014 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=1
Jul 2014 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=2
Aug 2014 - MB=0 WD=0 SE=3
Sep 2014 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=1
Oct 2014 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=1
Nov 2014 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=1
Dec 2014 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=1

2015:
Jan 2015 - MB=0 WD=2 SE=0
Feb 2015 - MB=1 WD=1 SE=0
...

I found this method that I documented helped to have my body relearn how to release on it's own - viewtopic.php?f=2&t=7121

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2017 MB=2, WD=12/13, SE=4
...last
WD 7/3
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2017 4:01 am 
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Day 87

Thanks jessieboy for the encouragement. Maybe I'll get an SE or WD soon. Nothing different today from yesterday. Each passing day seems easier as I adapt to not having orgasms or ejaculation, and being horny and full all the time. It actually feels normal at this point. Overall I have a better outlook on life, feel better physically and mentally and like the fact that I have the strength and determination to overcome an addiction.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2017 8:09 am 
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Slider wrote:
Day 87

Thanks jessieboy for the encouragement. Maybe I'll get an SE or WD soon. Nothing different today from yesterday. Each passing day seems easier as I adapt to not having orgasms or ejaculation, and being horny and full all the time. It actually feels normal at this point. Overall I have a better outlook on life, feel better physically and mentally and like the fact that I have the strength and determination to overcome an addiction.


When I first started on my journey back at the end of 2009, I felt similar. Felt better physically and mentally. Got healthier and lost weight. By 2012 when I went for my physical, I was completely healthy in ever aspect and considered ideal lifestyle -- perfect diet, physical health, activeness, and mentally healthy.

Common bonds :romance-grouphug:

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2017 MB=2, WD=12/13, SE=4
...last
WD 7/3
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2017 3:25 pm 
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Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 11 Jul 2015
Sex: Male
Made it 101 days in 2015 -- trust me, you can do this!

It may be uncomfortable, I know; but you may have already found that your boners become *incredibly* hard and impressive.

And -- this may make you feel good -- it does feel like a real accomplishment to make it into three digits.


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 12, 2017 12:45 am 
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Thanks for the comments and encouragement, guys.

Day 91

Two more days to equal my old record. After that I need to stop thinking about records and focus on this being a new permanent way of life. My best hope is for an SE, which would feel very good after 3 months of not ejaculating.

For awhile I will keep counting the days because that's a reminder that I can go natural for a long time. Maybe at some point the number of days won't mean that much and will be forgotten. When I gave up alcohol years ago I counted the days, weeks and months at first, but now I don't even think about how many years it's been.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 14, 2017 12:41 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 1
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 03 Jul 2017
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Day 93

Number of orgasms / ejaculations since Oct 13: None

Finally! Reached my old record. Now it's time to not think about records anymore. Going natural is a way of life with no more masturbation. I will still count the days just to stay motivated. The feeling is almost euphoric in that I can live and enjoy life without MB. So what will I feel like in another month? 6 months? Probably the same as I feel now. Life is good!

Note to self: Don't get complacent or overconfident. The MB devil in my head will try to get his way. Be strong and keep him locked up.


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PostPosted: Sat Jan 14, 2017 1:01 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 5
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 09 May 2017
Sex: Male
You really made it! :clap:

Wish I was already there where you are now!

And if there haven't been any orgasms yet, so what? It took Charlythemoose 130something days to get his WD.. I am sure, your body will have it's release too sooner or later.

Again: Congratulations! :obscene-drinkingcheers:

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2017:
Orgasms: 17
Jan: MB 2
Feb: MB 4 - Sex 1
Mar: MB 3
Apr: MB 3 - Sex 2
May: MB 2
June: MB 0
July: MB 0

Sept 2000 - 2016: lots of MB to internet porn (almost daily)
Mar 1993 - Aug 2000: unregular MB and WDs.

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