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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2018 11:19 pm 
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Day 10

Things are going well, except I'm not as horny as I would like to be. I would like to have an episode of strong urges in order to deal with them early-on during my no release plan. The edging is taking its toll on my little guy. A small fissure has developed on the shaft due to excessive stimulation and stroking. Dry stroking (moving the skin of the shaft back and forth over the glans) doesn't cause "wear and tear", but friction stroking (with soap and water) causes problems.

Even so, I'll edge twice today as usual. Could it be that edging provides its own satisfaction, and as a result, horniness is reduced??


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2018 2:44 am 
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You know that it felt better when you went over 200 days without MB or edging.

Except for your concern about prostatitis that led you to MB, you'd probably be still be on that path and enjoying it more than what you are doing now. You might even be having regular WDs by now.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Nov 06, 2018 2:49 am 
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You know that it felt better when you went over 200 days without MB or edging.

Except for your concern about prostatitis that led you to MB, you'd probably be still be on that path and enjoying it more than what you are doing now. You might even be having regular WDs by now.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Wed Nov 07, 2018 12:32 am 
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I know what you say is true, Texanguy, but I'm having too much fun edging to stop at this time.

2 weeks without release. Horniness is getting stronger, and I'm getting better at edging. Sometimes I'll float at the peak of the wave for a few minutes using short bursts of stimulation (2 or 3 strokes every 5 seconds). It's amazing! And still no orgasm or ejaculation. I like always being ready, with no refractory period as occurs after ejaculation.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Thu Nov 08, 2018 5:34 am 
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As long as you are not prepared to go completely natural yet, why not use your edging to head that way in one respect?

Compared to the natural pelvic thrusts used in sex, the high speed manual stimulation during masturbation is obviously different, excessive, and unnatural. It is so unnatural that masturbators may have trouble having sex, or at least not enjoy it as much. On the other hand, 'nofap' converts who finally have sex will tell you that sex as a non-MBer feels much better than MB. And they can have several 'repeat performances' in one night.

You have enough experience with long term AB to know that the 'jackhammer' high speed thrusting you see in some porn videos is actually what MBers have to do to reach orgasm. For a guy who never MBs and hasn't had sex in months, such high speed thrusting would end it all in seconds. The only way he could extend and enjoy the sex would be to 'ride the wave' with controlled long, slow pelvic thrusts -- the exact opposite of MB.

Some guys regularly engage in something called 'Karezza', which is prolonged sex without orgasm and ejaculation. They of course have no refractory period, and are always ready to do it again.

So if you 'have to' edge, why not use pelvic thrusts in your edging exclusively, and retrain yourself to the point where old fashioned high speed jerking is no longer interesting and becomes a total turn off?


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Fri Nov 16, 2018 12:33 am 
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Interesting info, Texanguy.

Day 24 - No release

I've had to cut the edging back to once per day because too much rubbing and stimulation caused skin abrasions on my penis. Also, the control over how I edge has improved. With lots of practice I can get just short of the point of no return in a brief time, then carefully and slowly stimulate to maintain the "almost there" feeling for longer than I previously could. When I have finished edging, I have not had an orgasm or ejaculated, but I feel more relaxed and satisfied than before edging. The horniness is still there, as well as the fullness.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Wed Nov 21, 2018 4:26 am 
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4 weeks completed with no release.

I'm going to change my edging this week, at least, and not get as close to the point of no return. It seems that if I get very close, but don't have an orgasm or ejaculation, I sometimes can express 1 or 2 drops of semen when I stop. In order to retain all semen possible, I'll stop edging long before I am nearing the PNR. Then I can usually express some precum, but no semen.

For the last 3 days I have been edging as described above, and notice that I'm more horny than when I get very close to the PNR. And that's what I want... to be uber horny all the time.


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