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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Wed Jul 25, 2018 11:45 pm 
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Day 118 - No release
Day 25 - No edging

OMG! I'm so horny, and it's been so long since a release. It does feel good to be horny and full, but I'm beginning to feel like something needs to give. The question is how long can I hold it? I've done this long enough to know I can continue as long as I want to. I never NEED to cum. But a spontaneous release or WD would feel so good. For now I'll just wait and see what happens.

Addendum: If I get to the point that I feel like I need to do something, the something will be to edge. Maybe that would settle things down.

For today I will not cum.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Fri Jul 27, 2018 1:00 am 
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Day 119 No release
Day 26 - No edging

Why has this become so difficult? I am so full and horny that I feel I could explode, but strangely I don't want to end my control over when and if I cum. Just to edge would provide some relief from the urge to cum. What's different about day 119 that wasn't there 50 days ago? It's this relentless urge that keeps returning. I know I can go longer with this, and if I were to MB to orgasm, I would have strong regrets immediately. So I'll double down on will power and continue a day at a time. I want to do this, even though strong urges are pulling me in a different direction.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 12:33 am 
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I could feel it coming. The urge for release became too strong to overcome with willpower or the good aspects of semen retention. Yesterday I edged, and it felt good. Then an hour later I decided that I could not hold it any longer. MB to ejaculation... done. Afterward I didn't feel the disappointment or letdown that I expected. Later in the shower, I did it again.

For now I'll just see where my mind and body take me. Not sure what I'll do.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 12:55 am 
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Deja vu all over again!


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Jul 28, 2018 10:50 am 
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Slider,

Bummer. I am amazed how long you can abstain for. Will watch to see what you decide next.

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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2018 1:06 am 
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It's been 3 and a half weeks since I broke my AB. Since then I've masturbated to orgasm and ejaculation a total of 5 times, the last being 13 days ago (so I'm now on day 14). I almost didn't keep going at about day 6, but decided to edge, and have edged every day since then. Some days I edged twice. Somehow edging relieves the urge to cum, and leaves me feeling horny, but without an urge to do anything more about it.

I have come to realize that I'll never totally give up masturbation to orgasm. Every time, at some point I feel that I must clear the pipes. The pressure and horniness is just too much to bear. Even though it feels good, the urge to cum eventually wins out.

What I'm trying to do is minimize the number of times I cum. If I can limit it to once every 2 or 3 weeks, that will allow me to feel all the good effects of AB, and continue on, after an occasional pipe clean out. That's much better than jerking off every day and not feeling anything between sessions. Being that there are 1440 minutes in a day, that would mean feeling nothing for 1438 of those minutes versus being aware of fullness and horniness for more than 20,000 minutes (more than 2 weeks).


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Wed Aug 22, 2018 1:26 am 
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Welcome back -- to 'semi-AB'!


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Fri Aug 24, 2018 1:24 am 
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Day 17 - no release
Edging - every day for more than a week

Edging feels so good and leaves me moderately horny, full, yet not having an urge to cum. I'm constantly changing the way I edge: fast or slow, with or without lubricant, come very close to the point of no return, or just doing a counted number of strokes (usually 50). Recently I tried soaping up both forearms, then making a X pattern with the right wrist over the left. Insert my little guy between my wrists and slowly pump in and out. Wow! Feels almost like the real thing.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Sat Aug 25, 2018 10:27 am 
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I looked at your past posts, when you had AB'd for at least 237 days -- all without any edging. You were definitely enjoying having quit MB, but then MB'd out of a concern for prostatitis, which you later proved to yourself was independent of how much or little you MB.

Then you started ABing again but added in edging, which inevitably resulted in slip ups. You have never duplicated that long AB run since.

I think the only way to do long term AB, or to totally quit MB as I recently have, is to 'go natural' and not edge. After a while, you don't want to edge.

But I suppose there's nothing wrong with the practice of constantly edging, almost inevitably slipping up, MBing for a while, and then going back and doing it again.

But on your one long, edging-free AB run, you definitely enjoyed it!


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Aug 28, 2018 12:50 am 
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You are right, Texanguy, but it's just so hard to go natural and not edge.

I MB'd to orgasm and ejaculation last Thursday. Today is day 5 of going natural without edging, nipple stim or doing anything erotic. I'm actually feeling good, horny, but not so much that I want to do anything about it. Will just take it one day at a time.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Aug 28, 2018 3:48 pm 
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I'm sure that you agree, the goal isn't 'asexuality', it's separating sexuality from MB, so that you enjoy horniness on a natural, even keel instead of getting stuck in the small peaks and long valleys of MB.

Logically, mother nature doesn't want a mature, fertile, 'ready' male to 'auto-empty himself' of his 'seed' and would discourage that with negative feelings afterward. Rather, mother nature would reward what it sees as desirable 'semen retention' and readiness with good feelings.

I can honestly say, after over a year of no MB and after making the exciting, positive, rewarding decision to never MB again, that even if I experimentally edge, I don't like it and stop. On the other hand, the idea of sex in a good WD is actually more exciting than ever. This way is normal, and more exciting than being an MBer. It feels too good this way to ever go back to childish, incomplete, boring, unnatural MB and its letdowns.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Aug 28, 2018 10:27 pm 
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Day 6 - No orgasm or edging

You are right, Texanguy. I don't want to be asexual, but rather have enjoyable sexual feelings often (meaning every few minutes), but not have the highs and lows of MB and then nothing.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Wed Aug 29, 2018 1:39 am 
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Slider wrote:
I don't want to be asexual, but rather have enjoyable sexual feelings often (meaning every few minutes), but not have the highs and lows of MB and then nothing.

Yep, go natural. It's better!


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2018 12:01 am 
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Day 7 - still not edging, and no release

So far I'm feeling good, no urges, just horny.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2018 2:12 pm 
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Dude I am so super proud of you!!! Keep it up dude.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2018 5:10 am 
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Day 12 - no touch, no edging, no release

I'm too horny to continue much longer. For some reason I am not feeling the good aspects of AB at this point. So either this PM or tomorrow morning I'm going to MB to orgasm. I really want to cum. I know I could continue much longer, but I just don't want to.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2018 11:02 pm 
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I MB'd to orgasm/ejaculation yesterday, and it felt sooooo good. However, I'm still horny today. Not sure what will happen. Another ejaculation would feel good. ????


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PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2018 9:46 am 
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Hey. It's all up to you. Since I think we are dealing with a similar ambivalence about edging, I'll share - what I tried last night was just dry strokes - all in the same direction for about 20 strokes or so and then 20 in the opposite direction for 20 or so and then repeat as desired. I found I did not get nearly as close as with the typical edging. I did miss getting some precum though, but it felt "safe" and clearly this side of ejaculation. I like to go all the way sometimes too but want to explore opportunities that come with longer periods between and hopefully a wet dream in the future. Not sure if this dialogue is best here or in one of the discussions but wanted to share. Good luck.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Mon Sep 10, 2018 10:22 pm 
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Thanks for the comments, Spunkcomet.

At this time I'm not doing any serious long term ABing. I'm trying to limit MB with ejaculation to about once every 7-10 days. Not sure which day I'm on today. I think it's 5 or 6. It is becoming more clear to me that I can't permanently stop MB to ejaculation. By day 30 to 60, the good effects of AB seem to fade and become replaced with a vague sense of urgency and anxiety. At times it still feels good, but then there are down times, too. With once a week release, I'm horny most of the time, and it feels good.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Sep 11, 2018 2:46 pm 
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Here are some quotes of comments you made during your long, edging-free AB. You felt better, enjoyed being horny, had more energy, worked out more intensely, and probably even lost more weight. This makes giving up MB not only natural and feel good, but healthier as well.

You CAN do it again. But if you join the ranks of non-MBers again, like most or all of them you'll have to give up edging, just like you did before.

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Day 152 - Today marks 5 months

I don't really feel like I'm abstaining. I just don't MB anymore. Thoughts of MB aren't that frequent, although I do get horny. If the thought does come to mind, I tell my self that that I don't do that anymore. It's not an option. Don't think about... As long as I don't edge, and I haven't since I stopped masturbating, erotic thoughts and even erotic touching (but not my penis) don't make me want to MB.

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Day 166

Still no release of any kind since Oct 13.

I'm horny for most of the time, but no urge to MB. Nipple sensation has returned as an erotic feeling. I'm now able to do as much nipple play as I want. While getting very horny doing this, there is no connection any more with MB. How much longer I can go is no longer an issue. There is no end point because I don't MB... ever.

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Day 175
Still no release of any kind since Oct 13, 2016.

I feel so much better now that I don't masturbate. There is always underlying sexual tension, but it is enjoyable... There is no desire to MB or an urge to cum. I have not done any genital stimulation since I stopped masturbating. My energy level is high, my workouts intense, and my feeling of control over mind and body are empowering.

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Day 201

Same story... no WD, SE, or release of any kind. After an intense workout, I'm horny as usual. I am finding that it's easier to deal with being horny, knowing that I'm not going to MB. In the past, every time I felt this way I would MB to relieve the feeling. But now I enjoy the feeling and don't want to eliminate it. Many times I've felt this horny and didn't think I could hold it another day (or another minute). But the decision not to MB has been made, and I'm sticking with it.

Slider wrote:
Day 207

During previous AB runs (as I used to call them), I would wonder what would happen if, when I got so horny that I just couldn't stand it any longer, instead of masturbating, I just didn't do it. Well now I know. Life goes on as usual, with peaks and valleys of sexual tension, even without a release. I feel now that being horny is a natural part of my existence. The sensation is not unpleasant, nor is it one that needs to be relieved. Orgasm and ejaculation are vague memories from almost 7 months ago. Somehow I feel that an orgasm and ejaculation now might even be painful.

I'm also enjoying the discipline of getting pumped at the gym with an intense workout and not coming home and jerking off... The longer it's been since the last ejaculation, the easier it is for me the believe that each day is just another day, and each week is just another week. But the thought and belief that has worked the best is knowing that I'm never going to MB again.

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Day 237

As time passes, I'm enjoying being horny even more. I especially like being very horny, but not wanting to end it by masturbating. Sometimes I do nipple play just before going to sleep at night. Other times I don't. No matter how horny I make myself with upper body stimulation, it feels enjoyable and relaxing. Sleep comes easily after erotic stimulation. But I have avoided below the waist stimulation for the entire time since my last orgasm Oct 13, 2016. Edging would be too tempting, and I'm committed never to masturbate again.

Since the last episode, I've had no more "wet encounters". Life is good, and I enjoy the way I feel.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2018 10:03 pm 
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Wow! I re-read the posts above and wish I could do it again. The problem I've had recently is that after about a week, maybe two, I am so horny that I just want to cum. The feeling that I need "relief" causes me to MB. Strangely, I don't feel let down as I did in the past.

So what to do now? I'll probably get bored soon with frequent MB, and decide to go natural again (without edging). Right now it's been 2 days since I MB'd, and I plan to MB in a few minutes. Maybe the motivation to stop MBing will kick in soon.


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
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As you know, it does feel better to be 'natural'.

Also, if you look at nofap sites, the guys who complete the '90 day challenge' often decide to keep going, and then ultimately decide to totally quit MB. Even those relatively few who MB after that long or longer often come back and try again. It thus appears that most guys who kick the MB habit prefer to stay that way. This is true whether they are having sex or not.

I'm sure that you'll eventually get back on the track you want to be on.


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Day 7

For the last week I haven't edged, or given much thought to MB. But now I'm beginning to get horny, and I'm feeling full with some aching in my balls. At this point it feels good, but I'll have to wait and see how it goes.


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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 23 Oct 2018
Sex: Male
I last MB'd on Sept 28. So now I'm on day 11, and have not edged or stimulated in any way. The level of horniness is building, as well as feeling full. At this point the balance of being horny and full outweighs the desire to end the feeling by MBing.

Over the last few months I've changed the way I position my little guy in my briefs. I used to always aim downward, but have change to straight up. It required using snug polyester/spandex briefs to maintain the upward position all day. The change has created an erotic feeling without doing any stimulation. The upward position is particularly good for sleeping. Random erections, including morning wood and sleeping face down, are more comfortable and feel better than in the downward position. As an aside, I've read about penile injury from sleeping face down with the penis pointed downward with a stiff erection. MB by humping the bed can also lead to injury (rupture of the corpus cavernosum).


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 Post subject: Re: Slider's Journal
PostPosted: Tue Oct 09, 2018 1:09 am 
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Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 30
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Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 10 Oct 2014
Sex: Male
Simple observation: While MB may be a hard habit to break, going natural naturally feels better.

Good luck on continuing the journey!


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2018 12:44 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 1
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 23 Oct 2018
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As always, Texanguy, thanks for the encouragement.

Day 13 going natural

No urges or strong desire to MB. The full, horny sensation is pleasant and energizing.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 25, 2018 10:35 pm 
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Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 23 Oct 2018
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Haven't posted in awhile. Lately I'm limiting MBO to once or twice a week, but if I do it, once, I'll do it again the next day, then wait another week. So each time I do it two consecutive days, I will AB for another week after that. This week I did it on Tuesday and planned to repeat on Wed, but didn't have the opportunity. So today is the day.


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Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 10 Oct 2014
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I'm sure that you'll try long term AB again. You know how naturally good it feels!


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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 1
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 23 Oct 2018
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Day 8

In my last post I indicated that I was going to MB to O, but didn't . I've decided to try something a little different. I want to be as horny, with lots of sexual tension, as possible. To do this I'm going to MB almost to the point of no return at least twice a day, maybe more. Some nipple play will be thrown in for fun. This morning I edged close to the PNR about a dozen times, and it felt really good.

So this is the plan:
1 - MB as much as I want, but no orgasm or ejaculation is allowed. Do this at least twice a day.
2 - Position my little guy in the upward position in my briefs. This causes a heightened sense of sexual awareness and tension.
3 - Commit not to orgasm or ejaculate no matter how horny I am, or how strong the urge is.
4 - Do this for an indefinitely long period of time.


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2018 1:53 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 1
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: N/A - never had a wet dream before
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 23 Oct 2018
Sex: Male
Day 9

I edged early this morning, and am going to do it again in a few minutes. The level of horniness is rapidly building, and it feels good. Just knowing that I'm not going to orgasm or ejaculate makes the edging sessions sensual and pleasant.

I'm looking forward to reaching the point that I desperately want to cum. That will be the time I'll need strong will and strength. I really want to get to that point, and then hold it for a long time afterward. I think I can do this. And if this works, repeat desires in the future will be easier to control and enjoy. I truly believe that a man should be uber horny all the time. That's the way nature made us.


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