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 Post subject: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 9:55 am 
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I used to frequent this site a year ago. I used to have a journal going to seek abstinence from MB so that I may enjoy WDs once again.

After a year ago when I failed, I'm back to start fresh.

So here we go.

2008 Log:
Oct 2008 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=0
Nov 2008 - MB=3 WD=0 SE=0

2010 Log:
May 2010 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=1
Jun 2010 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=0
Jul 2010 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=0
Aug 2010 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=0
Sep 2010 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=1
Oct 2010 - MB=0 WD=0 SE=1
Nov 2010 - MB=0 WD=0 SE=1
Dec 2010 - MB=1 WD=0 SE=1

2011 Log:
Jan 2011 - MB=0 WD=0 SE=0
Feb 2011 - MB=2 WD=0 SE=1

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 12:16 pm 
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I have been on and off abstaining over the past two years but I would always fail. My record was 20-something days; close to 28 days.

In January I committed to give it a better go this year. Instead of just cutting off MB and then get disappointed when I cave, I decided to go a more gradual approach.

I started on January 1st 2009, hoping to make at least a month. But by the middle of the month I had caved. I then set my goal to restart on February 1st 2009. Again, I caved just after 20 days. But instead of looking at it as caving in, I looked at the positive of it being longer then the previous attempt. If I can keep the momentum going, MBing will be long forgotten.

Starting in May - June, I realized even if I cave before the end of the month, I should immediately start up abstaining right away instead of falling off the wagon for the remainder of the month to start fresh the next month.

I know after I cave I feel a great amount of disappointment and moody. This is more so after a period of absentience as the contrast is more apparent.

So now I'm just finishing day 28, which is a personal best. No urge to MB yet -- also limited sexual desires, almost monk-like. It would be nice to exceed 30 days in this run. It would even be better to have a WB. I haven't had a WB for years. Unfortunately, I'm not having many dreams (ones that I remember anyways), let alone sexy dreams.

I will continue to try to write often on this forum to keep occupied and committed.

I'm making good use of all the sexual energy. I find I'm working out more and more, and I've lost 15 pounds in the last 6 weeks. I feel like I haven't had so much energy since I was 12. MBing on a regular basis was just zapping my energy.

Here's to looking forward.

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Thu Jul 15, 2010 2:09 am 
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Thanks for the kind words. I definitely do feel more alive this year in general, and in particular the last 30 days.

I got home late last night. I skipped working out on Monday (was taking a day off from working out), so I didn't want to skip yet another day. So I made sure I worked out last night. I find working out keeps my energy going, makes me feel more alive, and prevents me from falling into the addiction I'm avoiding.

Got to keep that dopamine (lust) in check with some epinephrine (exercise).

I'm on day 31. Next week will be hard as I'll be home all week alone. I'm planning to come up with a schedule of things to do and tasks to accomplish on each particular day. If I can make it through next week then the rest of July will be smooth sailing. :cool:

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Fri Jul 16, 2010 1:42 pm 
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Nothing new to talk about today. I did have a dream last night (non sexual) but can't remember it. I think I went to bed too early and was tossing and turning early in the morning.

Day 32.

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Sat Jul 17, 2010 2:55 pm 
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 3-4 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 21 Nov 2017
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I'm enjoying the new me.

Day 33.

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 9:33 am 
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I'm going onto week 6 now :)

Day 35 concluding.

It was a really hard day today. I woke up several times last night with a raging erection. And when I was working out I had an erection that just wouldn't go away. It was just so tempting but I didn't cave.

I had a little bit too much watermelon yesterday. There is something in watermelons that relax blood vessels which is the same affect Viagra does. It increases frequency and buoyancy of erections.

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2010 7:50 am 
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Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 21 Nov 2017
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Day 37. Can it be already?

I've found myself dreaming more lately. Almost every night I'm having dreams now (most of which I remember and some I only remember shortly after waking up). All of my dreams are non-sexual, but they do deal with hanging out with friends (online and at school/work, etc).

I'm going to be really sore tonight, but probably very relaxed. I worked out for about 2.5 hours this morning (boxing, cardio, swimming, etc) and then I went running for an hour. So I've been relaxing this afternoon. I may even take a nap :sleeping-yellow:

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 10:20 am 
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Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 21 Nov 2017
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Andy-80 wrote:
Well done for getting yourself so far. You've smashed your record, right?
Keep pushing through the days and you never know how far you're going to go.
Im still hanging in there too and I've now achieved 27 days


My previous record was just under 28 days (< 4 weeks). So, ya, I am sort of smashing the record. I hope I can at least double it (if not more)

Keep hanging in there!

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Sat Jul 24, 2010 12:53 am 
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Day 39. I just keep trucking along. Half of me wanted to cave and half wanted to keep trucking. I'm trying to keep the demon away.

No dreams last night, which is odd. Usually after a heavy day of activity, I'm super relaxed for some REM.

I had about 4.5 hours of activity yesterday (cardio, boxing, running, swimming).

Today I'll be taking it more easy, I hope :?

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Sun Jul 25, 2010 5:42 pm 
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Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 21 Nov 2017
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Saturday was day 40.

Unfortunately I slipped up this morning so back to day 0. :violin:

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Sun Jul 25, 2010 5:46 pm 
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jessieboy wrote:
Saturday was day 40.

Unfortunately I slipped up this morning so back to day 0. :violin:

No worries man... just keep it up.

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Current Day of Abstaining: ---
Longest Abstaining Record: 36 Days November 2011-December 2011
Date of Last Wet Dream: 10/28/2017
Total # of Wet Dreams: 21; First WD 07/21/2010


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 2:24 am 
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Andy-80 wrote:
Unlucky dude but you can't do much more than your previous record :clap:
That is in itself a stepping stone towards a wet dream.
Will you have a rest from abstinence or get back on track and try and go beat your record again?

Also if you could please give details on why you think you gave up, the feelings emotions and what caused you to give in. Also for your sakes you could think back and record the ways to behave in that situation to prevent giving in again. I'm kind of testing to see if the technique will help others, follow this link
viewtopic.php?f=2&t=3866

I'm back on the horse and try to at least double the 40.

I feel lazy, tired and achy after MBing last night. I didn't even enjoy the MB one bit.

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 2:27 am 
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Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 09 Dec 2016
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jessieboy wrote:
Andy-80 wrote:
Unlucky dude but you can't do much more than your previous record :clap:
That is in itself a stepping stone towards a wet dream.
Will you have a rest from abstinence or get back on track and try and go beat your record again?

Also if you could please give details on why you think you gave up, the feelings emotions and what caused you to give in. Also for your sakes you could think back and record the ways to behave in that situation to prevent giving in again. I'm kind of testing to see if the technique will help others, follow this link
viewtopic.php?f=2&t=3866

I'm back on the horse and try to at least double the 40.

I feel lazy, tired and achy after MBing last night. I didn't even enjoy the MB one bit.


Well you can consider that a good sign... you are preferring mbing less and less... the last time I mbed it hurt... and I felt terrible aftwarwards... every bit counts.

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Current Day of Abstaining: ---
Longest Abstaining Record: 36 Days November 2011-December 2011
Date of Last Wet Dream: 10/28/2017
Total # of Wet Dreams: 21; First WD 07/21/2010


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 3:44 am 
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shadow_flare wrote:
jessieboy wrote:
I feel lazy, tired and achy after MBing last night. I didn't even enjoy the MB one bit.

Well you can consider that a good sign... you are preferring mbing less and less... the last time I mbed it hurt... and I felt terrible aftwarwards... every bit counts.

When you look at the extra energy and t-buzz, plus the superior outlet of WD's, perhaps it is simply natural and normal to move beyond MB. Can you really be happy with constant MB once you start going beyond it? Isn't it seemingly more sexually and emotionally mature for a guy without a current sexual outlet to find his release and reward naturally in WD's rather than be a 'jerk off' indefinitely?


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Sat Jul 31, 2010 4:48 pm 
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Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 21 Nov 2017
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Day 6 and going strong.

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
11-15Y-age,no MB -about WD 1-2 a week


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Sun Aug 01, 2010 6:25 pm 
jessieboy wrote:
Day 6 and going strong.

I trust you can go strong for as long as you want... and I believe you can do it Jessieboy, good luck body!


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 03, 2010 5:36 am 
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nombl4wd wrote:
jessieboy wrote:
Day 6 and going strong.

I trust you can go strong for as long as you want... and I believe you can do it Jessieboy, good luck body!

Thanks for the encouragement.

I'm on Day 8 now.

Had a sexual dream last night. Probably wasn't long enough into ABing to get a WD yet, but it was a good dream. It was my first sexual dream since 48-49 days ago [yes, I'm keeping track to the WD-trigger dreams now too :)]

In my dream my brain said NO but my body said YES. I was saying NO as I was ABing, then finally I said, ok, let's just do it.

So no WD yet, but the dreaming has started.

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
...
2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Wed Aug 04, 2010 2:41 am 
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jessieboy wrote:
In my dream my brain said NO but my body said YES. I was saying NO as I was ABing...

I think guys who don't have the MB habit don't have this problem. Their bodies and brains both say 100% YES to a WD. It may be that part of abstaining from MB is to reach the point where you don't hold back in a WD while still saying 'no' to MB.

You can interpret the t-buzz, extra energy, WD's, and other positive effects of abstaining from MB as an indication that not having the MB habit is the most natural and preferred state. If you start looking at it like that, the t-buzz and extra energy can become the expected norm and MB can become less and less appealing. It would seem logical that WD's would be easier to get when you change 'abstaining' from MB to 'not wanting' to MB.

Perhaps WD's should just be an enjoyable part of a better and more natural lifestyle where MB is seen as inferior and as having negative consequences.


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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
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jessieboy wrote:
In my dream my brain said NO but my body said YES. I was saying NO as I was ABing...

I think guys who don't have the MB habit don't have this problem. Their bodies and brains both say 100% YES to a WD. It may be that part of abstaining from MB is to reach the point where you don't hold back in a WD while still saying 'no' to MB.

You can interpret the t-buzz, extra energy, WD's, and other positive effects of abstaining from MB as an indication that not having the MB habit is the most natural and preferred state. If you start looking at it like that, the t-buzz and extra energy can become the expected norm and MB can become less and less appealing. It would seem logical that WD's would be easier to get when you change 'abstaining' from MB to 'not wanting' to MB.

Perhaps WD's should just be an enjoyable part of a better and more natural lifestyle where MB is seen as inferior and as having negative consequences.


I agree with the abstaining from MB is different than not wanting to MB. After the last slip up after 40 days, I know the difference. There was no pleasure in MBing last time I did it, and only the negative consequences. I haven't had any cravings and I hope I don't either.

Day 9.

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Fri Aug 06, 2010 12:05 pm 
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Day 11

I woke up to a dream that I was browsing through some random photos and I came a cross a few that depicted a nude woman. Then I woke up.

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SE 7/14
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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
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2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
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jessieboy wrote:
I had a little bit too much watermelon yesterday. There is something in watermelons that relax blood vessels which is the same affect Viagra does. It increases frequency and buoyancy of erections.


Where did you find this information? I actually had watermelon today and ended up MBing a few hours later; very interested to see if there's a connection and if there are other foods to eat or avoid.

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I'm back.

Just wanted to announce I'm on day 40, tied with my previous record :)

No WDs yet, but I had a restless night the other night with constant dreams and feelings building up to a WD :D

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2017 MB=2, WD=29/30, SE=4
...last
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SE 7/14
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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
PostPosted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:14 am 
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I'm back.

Just wanted to announce I'm on day 40, tied with my previous record :)

No WDs yet, but I had a restless night the other night with constant dreams and feelings building up to a WD :D

Hats off to you for resisting the urge for such a long time. I hope you keep on expanding on your goal so that you stop mb for ever.


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On day 42, new record.

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SE 7/14
MB 2/22
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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
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So close to a WD this morning.

I had a dream I was sitting on the toilet and that I was just about to have a SE. I tried to hold in to prevent the SE. Then I woke up. If I would have just let it happen in the dream, it probably would have been definitely a WD. I had the most rock-solid hard erection all morning. I couldn't get the erection down from the dream. I literally spent 2 hours all morning trying to let die down. I thought for sure I would end up with a SE.

The tbuzz is great today :)

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2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
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80 day mark.

Nothing else to remark really. Hope for a WD soon.

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SE 7/14
MB 2/22
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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
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Wow, congratulations - you've seriously been abstaining for so long now? How does it feel? Do you still have the urge to MB? No sign of a wet dream yet - makes me wonder why it's taking so long. Do you have SE's a lot?

I'm on day 5 and I'm doing alright so far. Really hope to be able to quit MB for...ever!!!!


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DreamNow wrote:
Wow, congratulations - you've seriously been abstaining for so long now? How does it feel? Do you still have the urge to MB? No sign of a wet dream yet - makes me wonder why it's taking so long. Do you have SE's a lot?

I'm on day 5 and I'm doing alright so far. Really hope to be able to quit MB for...ever!!!!


Ya, it's crazy. I've tried abstaining in 2008 but never really got past 2 weeks. In January I made it a goal to abstain this year. I knew there would be many bumps along the way, but the goal was to try to go as long as possible, and then when I slip up, start over right away and try to double the previous run. I've essentially been going 20, then 40 and this is the first time I've exceeded 80. I've been at 40 and 46 before slips ups.

I still get an urge once in a while. Definitely much less now. In the past 80 days I had one serious urge where I was contemplating seriously going for it but then a friend phoned me and I got distracted. That was around day 60.

No sign of WD, but I am dreaming more now then before, and dreaming more sexual type dreams (no dreams of actual sex, but dreams of sexual nature). Only other time I had these types of dreams was before I started MBing, when I was a full time WD -- before I learned about MB.

My advice to you is to start with baby steps. Go as far as you can ABing but if and when you slip up (and you definitely will, it's human nature) get started back right away. Don't think it's hopeless and quit. Try to double the previous run. Quitting MBing forever is a huge goal and we'll all fail unless we break it up into smaller goals.

I know when I used to slip up in the past I always felt "ah that was good" when I finally MBed -- always a positive feeling right after (the chemicals rushing to the brain etc). The last two slip ups were "I just ended 40 days of ABing for that?" which then fueled my desire to go even further.

I've been making a number of changes this year. Eating better, working out more and most importantly, taking care of myself. I have been working out on a routine basis since I was 15 but I never really saw any benefits from it. I was about 20 pounds overweight always, no real muscles and always tired. This was quite different than before I started MBing. I was always energetic. This year, eating better and respecting myself, and working out for the goal of getting fit, over the last 12 months I've seen a tremendous improvement. The first 6 months I didn't see much improvement, but since the summer, things are definitely turning around. I've lost 20 pounds, I'm now at my ideal body weight, I started developing the first signs of a washboard stomach, something I never expected to ever see, I'm always energetic, never feeling tired or exhausted, I get less headaches, I'm less irritable, I wake up earlier in the mornings, I end up being able to go to bed earlier at night, etc. With regards to my sexuality, my groin feels more alive -- more sensitive. I'm having dreams again of a sexual desire, I don't feel sexually frustrated anymore. I feel more in control. I'm losing the desire more and more at looking at pornography. I haven't looked at any for more than 120 days and the desire is gone. Even though I haven't had a WD yet this year, my goal of ABing has now rooted itself into not only the desire to go back to become a full time WDer, but also for maintaining a healthier lifestyle and increased awareness and sensitivity to my sexuality.

Also, like some others, I am victim to some SEs. I've had 3 in the past 80 days. Part of my workout involves stretching, and the last two SEs came about after doing stretches on my hamstring muscles. With my constant sensitivity in my groin area, stretching muscles in surrounding areas have been triggering SEs, usually between 20-40 days apart. I'm getting more aware of this, and trying to prevent this by trying to avoid those stretches on days that I feel I might have an SE. You can usually feel the SE coming, but the signs can get mixed in with what you are doing. Both exercises and SE increases my heart rate but I notice that on days I exercise and i feel my hamstrings twitching when I stretch them, those are the days I'll have an SE if I continue on with my workout. So I'm going to try making some adjustments when I see those signs, such as maybe avoid stretching or only do an upperbody workout.

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WD 11/21
SE 7/14
MB 2/22
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2014- MB=24,WD=3,SE=15
2013- MB=30,WD=4,SE=17
2012- MB=33,WD=4,SE=9
2011- MB=40,WD=6,SE=14
<2010- lots of MB, no WD/SE
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alexkoenig wrote:
you gotta be kidding me !!! 80 days at 19yo ??? oh my, how can you actually survive that ? hats off !


It's hard, but have a look at my previous response, the one right before this.

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 Post subject: Re: Jessieboy journal
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I'm very proud of you. I'm trying to AB again too. We should talk some time Jesseboi. Keep it up,
warm regards and happy holidays, Riakath


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