Wet Dream Forum

by **lukester19** » Fri Jul 03, 2009 3:59 pm

I found a forum earlier that tried a 21 challenge to stop masterbation. In this forum 21 days seems not that much because all of us can do it with our mindset and information to guide us in this forum. We can work together and log our goals and get there. Who needs 21 days just keep on going and destroy it. Wet dreams are so much better than just the 21 days. But in the other forum a few were succesfull. Lol, I cant believe i read all of it, the 52 pages :roll:

. You can see many were determined and only a few survived to the end. The ones that did were satisified and liked the results. The forum kind of reminds me of darmins theory. That nature selects. I could certainly see that coming to play with people jumping of the bandwagon, begining again, and many finally giving up.

Proves that persistence is the key and keep on chugging along. Hope everyone here is successful. :greetings-
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http://www.theattractionforums.com/off-topic/17338-21-days-break-habbit-my-challenge-your-challenge.html

Ps If this does not belong in this thread be sure to move it. I just was not sure where it could belong but i guess it can help some people with breaking some of there records.

by **CHIP** » Sun Jul 19, 2009 12:37 pm

I have a confession to make. I cant believe I read all 52 to pages of this thread either...
I guess it was sorta worth the read. It can keep your mind off "other stuff." lol

Only one or two of them even mention having a WD, but to be fair most of them gave up within a week or so and had to restart, The goal of this “21 day challenge” was to strictly to give up Masturbation for 21 days. The participants could still have as much intercourse as they wanted, they just couldn’t jackoff…so, it doesn’t really surprise me that most of them never had a WD. I give the guys who made it 21 days props though for kicking the habit, even if it was just for the challenge.

The most interesting excerpt I found from this thread was;

“I'm just a newb, but it makes sense that if you always know you've got the option of going home and beating off then subconsciously you're not going to push yourself …..” “You have to make a pact and say "I do NOT have the soft option of going home and getting my rocks off manually!!! I can and WILL do better!" .....Keep saying this to yourself - don't disrespect your boys, they deserve better..…”

by **lukester19** » Mon Aug 10, 2009 1:51 am

“I'm just a newb, but it makes sense that if you always know you've got the option of going home and beating off then subconsciously you're not going to push yourself …..” “You have to make a pact and say "I do NOT have the soft option of going home and getting my rocks off manually!!! I can and WILL do better!" .....Keep saying this to yourself - don't disrespect your boys, they deserve better..…” [/b][/quote]

wow that is a good quote. I did read all of it and this quote I did not evaluate how much sense it makes. Guess I was really busy in seeing how many people would make it to the 21 days and read it fast but that is a good quote. "the mind and body are one, but the mind should always have control, if the other way around then you have trouble." remember this quote from some where but it is true. You got to have control and stop at the temptations than you can truly feel you have succeeded.

by **shadow_flare** » Mon Oct 12, 2009 7:15 am

Stopping that temptation is a good thing. I learned of several ways... get up... go outside... or go in a area where your family is... that urge suddenly stops... reduce the amount of alone times as much as possible.

by **Thursday** » Mon Oct 19, 2009 1:11 am

This page has some good info.:

http://www.shelleylubben.com/masturbation-good-or-bad

There's also a lot on this site that explains what the realities of the porn-industry, and its victims, are.

by **ponyboy** » Tue Feb 02, 2010 10:34 am

The thing that bothers me about some people in the challenge is the ones who are like, "I did it, 21 straight days! I had sex 18 times though so that helped." If you ask me that's not completing the challenge. It would be easy not to MB if you were getting a release from sex.

by **Squeeze** » Tue Feb 02, 2010 7:53 pm

ponyboy wrote:The thing that bothers me about some people in the challenge is the ones who are like, "I did it, 21 straight days! I had sex 18 times though so that helped." If you ask me that's not completing the challenge. It would be easy not to MB if you were getting a release from sex.

Ha ha, yeah, that would hardly be a challenge then!

by **shadow_flare** » Sat Mar 06, 2010 8:06 pm

ponyboy wrote:The thing that bothers me about some people in the challenge is the ones who are like, "I did it, 21 straight days! I had sex 18 times though so that helped." If you ask me that's not completing the challenge. It would be easy not to MB if you were getting a release from sex.

Well, then there are some positives to being single and not getting sex XD

I have seen some people on this forum doing the same, but yeah. I like the 40 day and 40 night challenge that is going on.