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 Post subject: Sons having wet dreams?
PostPosted: Tue Aug 07, 2018 10:10 pm 
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Just occurred to me that some of you might be old enough to have kids who are teens or older. If any of you have sons, has your interest in wet dreams allowed you to discuss the topic more openly with him, or learn more about his experiences having them, like age of first one, frequency, etc.?


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2018 3:49 am 
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Most parents never say anything about it, and most sons never say anything about it either. I have known mothers to say they knew when their son was having wet dreams from doing his laundry, but they never raised it as an issue with their sons.

More here: http://www.healthystrokes.com/parents.html and http://www.healthystrokes.com/wetdreams.html


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 17, 2018 9:56 pm 
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Jamie this is a very interesting question. I am a father, though at the momement I have only daughters, but certainly I have occasionally given thought to what I would want a son to know.

Bearing in mind that I am someone who dips in here now and again because I find it interesting rather than someone committed to seeking wet dreams, I wouldn't want to push him one way or the other on the wet dreams vs. masturbation thing, instead I'd want him to hear both sides of the argument and make up his own mind.

Where I do have an oppinion I would definitely give him it is that the movement that considers ejaculation other than for procreation to be bad is miguided. I would tell him that once he has started producing semen that it is natural that his body will want to ejaculate it and whether he chooses for that to happen deliberately or spontaneously he should enjoy the sensation, and especially the associated orgasm, to the maximum free of any negative thoughts - it's one of the pleasures of manhood. I'd also want to say that should he get semen on his underwear or sheets there is no need to be embarssed about it, that we, his parents, would not be annoyed by it but rather we would be glad he has reached that step on the road to manhood, as indeed should he be, and that the washing machine will take care of them. The point of that is that, should he wake while, or just before, cumming in a wet dream his priority should be to enjoy cumming and then deal with the mess afterwards. Likewise, he should not feel like he needs to only ever ejaculate in the shower so as to avoid any evidence.

Once we've had that discussion it would be up to him. I would not probe for information about his experiences. I would hope to come across as open enough that he can ask or share anything he wants to but he is entitled to his privacy.

So what is your experience with your Dad? Did he say anything? Was it adequate? How open have you been with him?


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 18, 2018 9:53 pm 
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Excellent outlook and advice, Horme. Agree 100 percent.


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