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PostPosted: Thu Oct 05, 2017 1:45 pm 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 4
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If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 11 Nov 2017
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Hi so I recently started abstaining for personal reasons. I hit the 27 day mark and had a wet dream. I am curious now as to about how long it normally takes people to reach their next wet dream. Does it vary heavily? Or is there a close average for most guys between one wet dream to the next.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 05, 2017 2:48 pm 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 10
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Other
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 23 Sep 2017
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From what I've noticed on here from frequent wet dreamers, there seems to be a lot of variance in wet dream frequency. Age, diet, exercise, sleepiness level, sleep amount, average stress levels, and lifestyle variations all affected frequency. Factors that I rarely see discussed here are the natural variations in average libido from person to person (regardless of age), degree of use of common legal chemicals such as caffeine, nicotine, and alcohol, and any differences in predispositions towards depression, anxiety, and addictive behaviors. These can affect hormone levels, and hormone levels can affect these things.

I did read somewhere that the only other way the body gets rid of excess semen besides wet dreams and masturbation is release into the bladder for excretion. For those whose bodies naturally do this, it would likely be more difficult for them to have a wet dream, despite abstinence from masturbation.

I would suggest just letting your body figure out how and when it's going to get rid of the excess. If you are a teenager, and you don't masturbate, your excessively high hormone levels should still cause occasional wet dreams. How often it happens for you is -your- normal. Many users here start a log, and include daily differences in some of the factors I listed above to see if they can understand their own bodies better.


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 05, 2017 7:10 pm 
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Precum Production: Little Precum (1-2 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Nude - no underwear
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 4-5 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 10 Oct 2014
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Barkin has it right, WD rates can vary from one person to the next, and other physical, mental, and even genetic factors might play a role.

But we can learn something from successful frequent WDers. A guy by the name of shadow-15 was the most successful MBer turned WDer at this site, but his posts were lost during a big crash of this site years ago. There were some other good success stories here later as well, but it seems like older guys may end up going back to MB until they AB (abstain from MB) again, even though they would rather be having WDs.

Shadow-15 was 15 years old, and never had WDs before. So he started to abstain from MB after joining the forum.
-He started sleeping nude, which at least for some guys seems to help get WDs.
-When he started getting them, he decided he liked them better than MB.
-He developed a negative attitude about MB, didn't like it, and didn't even think like to about when he used to do it.
-He didn't watch porn, and didn't edge
-He started getting 2-3 WDs per week, always dreaming of having sex.
-He eventually increased to 4-5 WDs per week. Sometimes he had two WDs in one night. Part of his formula, which he wrote about, and which he could do because he had put MB out of his mind:
-......Fantasize about having sex before going to sleep -- and don't even think about MB at all
-......Never edge of physically stimulate your penis
-......Have a strong dislike for MB

While shadow-15's posts are gone, if you have a serious interest in transitioning to WDs, and are ready to do some reading, you can read these two long topics by guys who made it to WDs. There are lots of references to shadow-15 in them. The first of these topics became quite intellectual and philosophical, but it's not clear if he ever kept going. The other guy seems to have successfully replaced MB with WDs and will probably never go back to MB.

You'll probably read some things in these about the whole MB/WD topic that you never even thought about before.

http://wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=6288&hilit=Shadow+15&start=30

http://wetdreamforum.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=6763&hilit=Shadow+15&start=30


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 05, 2017 9:42 pm 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 04 Jul 2017
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Kobozo wrote:
Hi so I recently started abstaining for personal reasons. I hit the 27 day mark and had a wet dream. I am curious now as to about how long it normally takes people to reach their next wet dream. Does it vary heavily? Or is there a close average for most guys between one wet dream to the next.


It does vary heavily from guy to guy, however, a definite pattern we have seen here is the next WD after the first almost always happens sooner, if you keep abstaining. So for example, if the first WD took 4 weeks, the next one may only take 3 weeks, and the one after that may take only 2 weeks, after which most reach some sort of equilibrium, like once every 2-3 weeks for example. This is for the lucky guys who get frequent WD’s when abstaining - not everyone does (like me).

I would keep abstaining and see what happens - you may very well be one of the lucky ones!

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 09, 2017 12:37 am 
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Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 4
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: no
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 11 Nov 2017
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Awesome thank you so much guys. I think the biggest struggle will be putting MBing completely out of my mind since I've had the connection of sexual thoughts and MBing. Thank you again guys.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 01, 2017 1:29 am 
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Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 100
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 30
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 01 Jan 2015
Sex: Male
I never had wet dreams as a teenager or adult. A few years back when wife and I phased out sex, I tried to masturbate, but with poor results. So, I just went without. Horrible at first, but then my libido started to ease off and it wasn't so bad. After nearly 3 months, had my first wet dream. The next was about 3 weeks later. After that the intervals started slowly decreasing, and I'm about weekly now.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 01, 2017 9:22 pm 
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Age: 43
Number of wet dreams you've experienced: 1
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 3
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 5-6 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 04 Jul 2017
Sex: Male
That’s a really interesting story marriedsologuy! Were there any other triggers to get that first WD that you can think of? Changes in diet, sleep habits, supplements, work, exercise, etc.? Or was it just simply abstaining for 3 months?

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 03, 2017 12:53 am 
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Precum Production: Lots of Precum (more than 4 drops before ejaculation)
Average time to orgasm/ejaculation normally: 30
Underwear worn when going to sleep.: Boxer briefs
Have you ever had a spontaneous ejaculation?: yes
If you've had a wet dream before, when did it occur after falling asleep?: 6-7 hours
Date that you last had an orgasm/ejaculation.: 01 Jan 2015
Sex: Male
It was very much about trying to lower my libido as much as possible. Avoiding porn. Switching thoughts to non-erotic. As much as possible, removing sex and sexual thoughts from my conscious mind. Letting seminal fluid build up but not thinking about it. It was really tough at first. After 2 or 3 weeks my libido nosedived and then it became easier. Then erotic dreams started, and I enjoyed them but tried not to dwell on them too much.


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