Wet Dream Forum

Great advice. Thanks Mark!

Hallo ı was not masrurbating for 3 weeks but last night ı ejaculated while watching porn now do ı should start over counting days

I'd say it depends on whether you were stroking it or if you just shot it off without touching.

Wet dreams are in effect the result of the build up of semen in the epididymis released most often nocturnally. The best way to have them is to keep building up your store of sperm (without having to release them) until it is eventually released.

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In my opinion, masturbation is NOT a crime! ABORTION is!

to me 7 days of abing!

Is it at all possible to just.. not have wet dreams?
I've gone for up to three months working as staff at a summer camp. I was active, healthy, and everything, but I've never had any wet dreams my entire life, and following all the rules proved no different.

Yes, not only possible, but normal and healthy as well.

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Wet dreams are good. Masturbation is bad. I think I got it.
"An open mind is the essence of intellect"
"Be who you are and say what you want, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." -Dr. Seuss
That's a picture of my own sperm under a microscope in my avatar.

Strange, Guess I'm one of those folks, then, who just doesn't!

Wow, I never even thought that people might not get WD. That makes a lot of sense I guess. Do you wish you got WDs, or are you happy without them?

I wish I could at least experience one, before I can say I would like them or not.

93 days without masturbation.... Still waiting for one.... NEVER has one... :-(

93 days!! my god
I don't think I've ever gone 93 hours and that's pushing it.
I've never had a problem having a wet dream but ne sure fire way of guaranteeing one is to share a bed with a girl you're mad about who's made it clear you won't be getting any.
Quite often I don't even get as far as sleeping before I've started to precum or even fully cum if I do get off to sleep there's no chance I won't ejaculate even if I'm not totally into her.
Try it, maybe even bring yourself close before.always works

Hi all,

i just found this forum after hearing a conversation between some boys about wet dreams and remembered my own. I remember it was a very pleasant experience and was interested in seeing if they could happen again. This site has been great to read and full of interesting information. There seems to be some division between those who say avoid all exual thought and stimulation and those who say have sexual stimulation but just dont touch your genitals. I have often worn a cage and find after a couple of days i am almost constantly leaking pre cum, and most often have had to have it removed because of the pain caused during sleep of a trying erection. I can always overcome this during wakefulness, and after a few days waking erections when caged just stop happening, but i can not stop sleeping erections which become very painful when caged and wake me up, and i dont seem able to stop the erection from continuing like i can if it happens when awake.So I guess as i am new to this, my question is do i avoid stimulating material completely , or be stimulated, produce pre cum but just dont mb ?
Thanks in advance, seems like this will be a fun journey. Is there a newbies page or introduction page i missed?

Welcome to the forum Mike! There's a whole lot of information in the threads, so it's a very useful tool to learn about the different methods. I personally abstain from stimulating material and minimized contact with my penis save for using the bathroom or showering. With this method, I was able to have a wd after about 3 weeks. Lots of guys have different methods, so check out the journals!

LKMike - welcome to the forum! Atomixism gave you some good advise on getting WD's again.

With regards to your nighttime erections, you cannot stop or prevent them! Every healthy male gets nocturnal erections when sleeping and we have zero control over them. So don't wear anything on your penis at night that won't fully accommodate your erection. That cage you're wearing is waking you up with pain when you get hard because it can cause damage to your penis. I would strongly recommend you don't wear it when you go to sleep.

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Wet dreams are good. Masturbation is bad. I think I got it.
"An open mind is the essence of intellect"
"Be who you are and say what you want, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." -Dr. Seuss
That's a picture of my own sperm under a microscope in my avatar.

hey, there is a lot of advice about how to get WD.
But just remember everyone is different and what's working for some won't work for other... just be patient
WD will come as a surprise, that also why they are great to get

I just go to sleep and it happens.

i'm 42 years and i had never a wd. Would love to expierence it once. Ant tips?

Back when I was doing my thesis project for university and working, I had a few of them. I would be too busy to MB, and too tired. So I guess my body did the work while I slept lol

Hi,this seems interesting....lol

In 2006 I posted a "Days to Wet Dream" topic:



I have been wanting to do an update but trying to get the data from WD Forum seems overwhelming when I think about the thousands of postings that have been done here. This past week I found a thread on the Reddit NoFap where 69 guys posted their experience getting WDs and how many days it took. 54 guys posted how many days it took to get a WD.

There were 15 guys that posted how many days they had gone and didn't get a WD Some had stopped but others were still abstaining for one.

Of the 54 WD guys, 30 included there age. I primarily studied this data because it included both days to WD and age, thus comparable to the WDF data I had studied in 2006.

The median age for the NoFap group was 23. interestingly this matched the median age of 23 for the WD Forum study from 2006.

The median days to WD for NoFap was 20 days vs the 29 day median for the WD Forum.

I combined the two data sets to come up with "days to WD" statistics for all 64 guys (34 from WD Forum and 30 from NoFap).

The median days to WD for all 64 guys was 21 days. (Half of guys got WD within 21 days. Other half took longer than 21 days.

The days to wet dream distributed as:

20% had WD within 8 days
40% had WD within 19 days
60% had WD within 32 days
80% had WD within 49 days
90% had WD within 65 days
10% had WD AFTER 65 days

The number of days to WD ranged from one day to 365 days. Yes one guy posted he had a WD on his nofap one year anniversary!

The WD after one day was posted by a 20 year old member from the WD Forum. Although unusual, it is understandable if one considers a few things:
1) Occasionally a guy just randomly gets a WD.
2) Some guys have WD's even when they are masturbating often.
3) Many guys abstain for weeks or months but have set backs so it is entirely
possible for a guy to abstain for a month, slip up with a MB one day and then
have a WD the next day. On average he has masturbated close to zero times
for the last 30 days.

I checked the correlation between age and days to WD. A positive correlation can go from 0 to 1 where zero means there is no relationship between age and days to WD and one means there is a perfect relationship between age and days to WD. For example if a correlation were one it would mean for sure that age affects how quickly guys get WDs. For these 64 guys the correlation came to 0.24. This means there is not a significant relationship between age and days to wet dreams. The large majority of differences for how long it takes to get to a WD have nothing to do with a guys age.

On to those that reported not getting a WD. There were 15 guys that reported how long they waited or had waited so far. The median wait was 41 days compared to the median wait for those getting WD's of 20 days for the nofap group.

Its hard to know how long it could take to get a WD for those that have tried but never got to a WD. A poll on this site on getting WD's shows that 66 percent of respondents got a WD. 17 percent did not get a WD but stopped abstaining before 60 days. Another 17 percent went more than 60 days but did not get a WD.

Based on 64 guys studied in this post, 10 percent take longer than 65 days. So its likely that some or many of the abstainers would eventually get a WD. One of the guys studied here took a year but we also know from this forum that some guys have abstained for a year with no WD

Thanks to the many posters that have contributed data and have helped the understanding of abstaining and WD's.

It is good to know that most guys that try eventually get a WD and I hope this posting is interesting to at least one other person. LOL.

Traveling Guy

Here is the combined data set that was used for the study.

Age/days to WD
14 / 29
16 / 9
16 / 14
17 / 7
17 / 14
17 / 20
17 / 33
18 / 21
18 / 25
18 / 49
18 / 60
19 / 8
19 / 8
19 / 19
19 / 20
19 / 45
20 / 1
20 / 14
20 / 28
20 / 33
20 / 38
20 / 43
21 / 5
21 / 9
21 / 60
21 / 65
22 / 3
22 / 3
22 / 7
22 / 14
23 / 15
23 / 19
23 / 20
23 / 58
23 / 94
24 / 6
24 / 25
24 / 42
24 / 70
25 / 5
25 / 37
25 / 38
25 /182
26 / 28
26 / 55
26 /135
27 / 39
28 / 8
28 / 9
28 / 40
28 / 45
29 / 5
29 / 8
29 / 66
30 / 3
30 / 17
30 / 20
30 /247
32 / 32
33 / 37
33 / 60
37 / 16
40 / 21

Total 64 posters with days to WD.

Well, I certainly am, well done and thank you for sharing your work! It was really interesting to read.

just dont touch yourself .. no porn and keep a pillow under your head ..

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